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[NT] NT women list of shit they put up with from men.

Salomé

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I think men and women have the capacity for understanding, or at least having a good grasp of just about anything.

I think our understanding is limited by what we are capable of experiencing. No man will ever understand what it's like to be a woman, living in a woman's body, unless he does so. And vice versa. It would be great if we all could. Then these types of threads / misunderstandings wouldn't exist.


OP: I don't put up with shit from anyone.
 

slowriot

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Men are inherently unable to shed a certain layer of superficialism.

This means that no matter what a deep thinker they are, or sweet, kind, or sensitive they appear, they cannot possibly comprehend the same dynamics that a female can.

:D Yes I can see that sometimes but we are all sexual beings every now and then.

I love when you make posts like the TG :wubbie:

With all due respect this is a rather insensitive, cruel, and misandrial statement to make. Not all of us are like this and those of us who are not already have to put up with a lot of cruelty, the feeling of being misunderstood, the feeling of being unwanted or unappreciated and the feeling of being outcasted. Your are not omniscient,..............

What just happened there?

And women really can't comprehend the same dynamics a male can. Enough already.

Agreed

I think our understanding is limited by what we are capable of experiencing. No man will ever understand what it's like to be a woman, living in a woman's body, unless he does so. And vice versa. It would be great if we all could. Then these types of threads / misunderstandings wouldn't exist.


OP: I don't put up with shit from anyone.

I totally agree miss Le Fay
 

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"If there is anything disagreeable going on men are always sure to get out of it"-Jane Austen

:whistling:
 

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Meh, I think the whole male/female dynamic is a bit overplayed. In all honesty, there have been tons of authors who have written characters (read: protagonists) which are the opposite gender they are. If there was really something all that compelling between the two sexes, then there would be a noticeable gap in how a man writes a woman, and how a woman writes a man. When an author is good, the differences are negligible or not noticeable at all.

To be honest, most of the sex differences are just stereotypes particular to culture.
 

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NT women are hardcore... I cant seem to get away from them lol...
 

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With all due respect this is a rather insensitive, cruel, and misandrial statement to make. Not all of us are like this

Except that we are. And shes right. Just because you havent known yourself to be like that doesnt mean you arent. I surprise myself ALL the time with shit i am willing to think/do.
 

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Except that we are. And shes right. Just because you havent known yourself to be like that doesnt mean you arent. I surprise myself ALL the time with shit i am willing to think/do.

I think both of you are wrong. You do not know me. You do not know what I think, what I feel, or the path I have chosen. I live my life according to values I violate under no conditions. I reflect on essentially everything and I am constantly reviewing everything I believe in. From a young age I saw social mores and superficiality to be just disgusting in many cases and made a choice to ensure that I analysed everything I could from as many perspectives as I could. You have not "seen" what I have. Many of the activities the other guys take part in as part of "male culture" I see as ridiculous and immoral. The sexual objectification of woman under no circumstance seems moral to me.

George Bernard Shaw said:
Life is not about finding yourself it is about creating yourself

The above quote stipulates that we have the capacity to create who we are. How we understand the world is our choice and how we choose to act on that understanding is our choice. Just because most swallow everything like pill- not delving deeply into mostly anything- does not mean that all of us have chosen such a path. Perspective has a lot to do with it. Human sacrifice, slavery, et cetera are almost unanimously considered to be immoral today; they were not considered so in the societies they were prominent in. By shifting one's perspective to another time, to another place, through the eyes of different people and fields you can gain insight and realisations that lead to you develop visions and values that you can then choose to live by, one one ought to live by. If one's visions and values are so important to them the feeling of duty to follow them through and through is immensely powerful it is almost impossible for them to stray from it. Even all other feelings and thoughts can become subservient to those visions and values. If you have never felt that feeling to follow a vision of how you ought to be regardless of how difficult life may become then I feel sorry for you; but please do not think that no one else has never had that feeling and is willing to act on it
 

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I think our understanding is limited by what we are capable of experiencing. No man will ever understand what it's like to be a woman, living in a woman's body, unless he does so. And vice versa. It would be great if we all could.

Ahem. *raises hand*

<<< FTM Transsexual alert :)

From experience I have to say, many women forget that this goes both ways... most women have some idea that being a man is all about having your way more often, better career prospects, all about doors opening to you. Let me tell you from experience, a LOT of doors shut to me when I transitioned, and the ones that opened, quite a lot of them are pretty scary to have to go through.
 

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I think both of you are wrong. You do not know me. You do not know what I think, what I feel, or the path I have chosen. I live my life according to values I violate under no conditions. I reflect on essentially everything and I am constantly reviewing everything I believe in. From a young age I saw social mores and superficiality to be just disgusting in many cases and made a choice to ensure that I analysed everything I could from as many perspectives as I could. You have not "seen" what I have. Many of the activities the other guys take part in as part of "male culture" I see as ridiculous and immoral. The sexual objectification of woman under no circumstance seems moral to me.

What I am telling you is that you shouldn't count your morals before they hatch. As an INFJ like me, I would assume you would have similar ways of processing data, and one thing I have seen many male INFJs notorious for myself included is going hardcore on the morals then dropping them a week later when new data was processed that made them irrelevant. May I ask you how old you are without you getting offended?
 

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Meh, I think the whole male/female dynamic is a bit overplayed. In all honesty, there have been tons of authors who have written characters (read: protagonists) which are the opposite gender they are. If there was really something all that compelling between the two sexes, then there would be a noticeable gap in how a man writes a woman, and how a woman writes a man. When an author is good, the differences are negligible or not noticeable at all.

To be honest, most of the sex differences are just stereotypes particular to culture.

There are, for the most part, an amazing amount of similarities between the male and female bodies; they are like semi-overlapping schematics, in the sense that a large portion of bodily functions are similar, but yet, those portions of the schematics that don't overlap, are extremely different and hard to phsyically comprehend by the other gender. So, writing a book in which the protagonist is a female and the author is a male, or vice versa, is not so complex because we have some understanding of one another even with our differences.

Even so, those dramatic differences can be explained, and mentally categorized by some detached form of empathy, e.g.: I will never know what it feels like to have a child, or have a monthly cycle, or think in the way a woman does, but I can comprehend some, and dear god is that hard, of it by trying to relate. My tries won't ever be exact though, because they are from the perspective of a male and I am used to my own schematics.

Of course, there are exceptions to this rule, transex individuals, etc., but they might go into their own category in this case. I don't know. So, my point is, any sex differences, some are overplayed because similarities are disregarded, are sex differences and culture just ruminates on them and distorts them to unecessary extremes. They are there though.

Feel free to beat me with a ladle now. That is, if I offended anyone. I don't even know where I was going with this, I just felt like writing.
 

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women have to put up with a lot more shit than men than the other way around. and plus they have to put up with guys whining about women only liking assholes when those same guys would never date a non-conventionally attractive woman.

And no that wasn't what my "don't get women" thread was about.:tongue10:
 

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Ugh, I can't stand clingy girls.

Oops, wrong thread!

LOL
 

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"If there is anything disagreeable going on men are always sure to get out of it"-Jane Austen

:whistling:

I like how the bons mots of a woman who never actually had a relationship herself, so far as anyone knows, are so often taken as deeply incisive commentary upon them.
 

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Orangey, I never said they did. That was just, y'know, incidentally :)

Interesting. Care to share your experiences here?

Nah. People never really wanna hear that stuff. Srsly, my observations are seldom welcome - what's in it for me to make me wanna run the gauntlet? ;)
 

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I like how the bons mots of a woman who never actually had a relationship herself, so far as anyone knows, are so often taken as deeply incisive commentary upon them.
A truth not universally acknowledged.
Nah. People never really wanna hear that stuff. Srsly, my observations are seldom welcome - what's in it for me to make me wanna run the gauntlet? ;)
Goodness! All that testosterone has made you so selfish!
;)
 
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