I myself have more times than I can count made some joke or offhanded comment in the wrong company that I later had a chance to regret; most recently I had a few too many Heinekens and I shouted out at a party (in response to a comment by someone else), "but how the hell can someone be happy in law school?" -- turns out 90% of those present were lawyers or law students. I hardly know any ENTPs in person myself, but the ones I've seen in books, movies and TV have a propensity to do that (Mal Reynolds and Sam Axe jump to mind), so I had a hunch this was an ENTP trait.
I used to, until I came to the conclusion that it's not the joke that's flawed... it's the listener.
If it's funny some of the time then it SHOULD be all the time. Context should not change a static statement.
Therefore, if yeu say something which was by all intents meant to be innocent, and someone takes offense, it's their fault for misinterpreting such. I can't help it that I can't read minds, and I can't help it that yeu are actively going out of yeur way to get pissed off.
I don't take guilt trips well, and someone going GRRRR at yeu for an innocent comment is guilt tripping in my opinion.
If yeu don't like it, toughbeans. I am not going to spend my life going insanely politically-correct and being uber-careful never to step on anyone's toes... it can't be done. If yeu want to get upset, yeu will. Period. If I said HELLO, someone could break into tears because they're uber-catholic and someone they knew just commited suicide so is going to hell and they made the association with HELL-o. Seriously, I can't be expected to predict everything, and it's not humanly possible anyway. While some slight tact should be used and a lil empathy at times, I honestly have almost nil for empathy so yeah, live with it XD
That being said...
How many dead babies does it take to screw in a lightbulb?
No, I don't have the answer, I've been tossing them at the ceiling all day and I keep missing. Is there some kind of trick to this, or a set number or whot?