[INTJ] INTJs I need your advice. Please.

[digesthisickness]

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<casts mirror of reflection on self>
*Digesthisickness's attack is reflected back towards her*
*Calculating hit, dodge, and spell resistance of reflected attack*

<attack hits digesthisickness for critical damage>
*Game now awaiting Digest's move*

what a cute lil gauntlet.

 

[Zarathustra]

^ I'm going to guess and attempt to speak for everyone and say INTJs want something deeper with someone. If the partner makes intimacy and dating into some kind of game like you suggested, then it becomes just a game and completely uninteresting to INTJ and the partner can not be trusted to look out for the INTJ's interest. So I'm guessing a little romantic depth and trust is needed for an INTJ to be interested in someone and to feel like spending time with the other person is important. Or at least it is with me.

 

[milkyway2]

I've been thinking the exact same thing...

Yes well sometimes I consider that I might be.

Anyways.. I haven't done anything, I haven't talked to him, I think it's best.

I just.. really really miss talking to him but I guess if I f'ed that up then I just have to live with it.

 

[burymecloser]

I'm really sorry you're hurt, but it's time to move on. It sounds like you're torturing yourself by dwelling on him. It seems like you're handling this with maturity and consideration externally, but that internally you're really hurting. Make a conscious decision to move on. Besides, don't you have a boyfriend? It doesn't sound like that relationship is filling your needs. If it is, forget about the other guy. If it's not, find someone else, someone new, who excites you.

 

[milkyway2]

sigh