Quote Originally Posted by onemoretime View Post
Short story long, develop some Fe and figure out how to modify your approach based on the social context
Life is too short for ''feelings''

Edit: Lol... but yeah, I assumed that O.P meant this as during ''work-ish'' type environments. Any healthy ENXJ can tone it way down when it's a social situation with friends etc. The healthy ones are very aware of their desire to control and if ''we'' REALLY need to get something done a certain way we can usually find a way to do it so it doesn't seem demanding or anything like that I.E explaining nicely why something would be ideal if done a certain way and then letting them do it whenever they please.