INTPness
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- 5w4
Absolutely not, to the bolded. They're antsy, mopey, self-defeatist, insecure, and crippled by self doubt since they believe they have to be initiators socially and they don't think they can do it. I don't see this as much in the women.
Are you that way too? Or were you at one time? If so, how did you *escape* that mentality/outlook?
Serious question, by the way. For me, it's gotten much better with age and life experience, but there's still that big pothole in the road that I could easily fall into (i.e. the types of things you mentioned above) if I don't actively avoid it.