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[NT] NTs only, "You know you're in love when"

Glass Forest

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When you have imaginary conversations with them in your head all day.

When you actually want to see them, even miss them.
 

Magic Poriferan

^He pronks, too!
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Hmmm... For me, the signs are:

I have immedietely responsive empathy toward the person.

I find what she says entertaining, even when she is saying completely boring things.

I am obsessively curious about the person.

My self-perception is vulnerable to her opinion.

I become alert and excited in her presence (like a dog :tongue:).

That's been my experience.
 
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Hmmm... For me, the signs are:

I have immedietely responsive empathy toward the person.

I find what she says entertaining, even when she is saying completely boring things.

I am obsessively curious about the person.

My self-perception is vulnerable to her opinion.

I become alert and excited in her presence (like a dog :tongue:).

That's been my experience.

I love being loved by an INTP.
 

JocktheMotie

Habitual Fi LineStepper
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Hmmm... For me, the signs are:

I have immedietely responsive empathy toward the person.

I find what she says entertaining, even when she is saying completely boring things.

I am obsessively curious about the person.

My self-perception is vulnerable to her opinion.

I become alert and excited in her presence (like a dog :tongue:).

That's been my experience.

Wow...word for word. Couldn't really explain it before, but you did it for me. Perfect.
 

onemoretime

Dreaming the life
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The randomness of thoughts in my head are all cohesively about that person.
 

Glass Forest

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I have immedietely responsive empathy toward the person.

I find what she says entertaining, even when she is saying completely boring things.

I am obsessively curious about the person.

My self-perception is vulnerable to her opinion.

I become alert and excited in her presence (like a dog :tongue:).

That's been my experience.
Wow, incredibly accurate for me. Really helped me to see ways in which im effected which i was unaware of.
 

Blank

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When I become extremely hyper-aware of myself and everything I say/do in that person's presence and constantly evaluate myself from their perspective, worrying whether or not I gained or lost brownie points.

Also: Thinking about that person every night before I go to sleep.
 

MiasmaResonance

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When, even though he pisses me the fuck off, I always go back to thinking he's amazing.

..I'll probably delete this later..
 

Grungemouse

Widdles in your cream.
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They're the one person who I never tire of hearing from.

Organize my work, social life, etc around them.

Or just cast the above aside, if I can't make time.

Feel desperate and needy, even though I've only sent one text message.

They randomly pop up in my thoughts during work, or whenever.

A joke that they told a month ago still makes me break out into a stupid grin.

The thought of them makes my toes curl; the sight of them nearly buckles my knees.
 

Tamske

Writing...
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... when I tell someone more than once about a thing I did with this guy. If I repeat myself, I have to be really impressed.
... when I dream about him. I mean dreaming at night, not daydreaming. My daydreams never contain such realistic stories as falling in love.
 

kafkacat

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When you feel a grand connection with them on some level, and the thought of being close to them soothes you.
 
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They're the one person who I never tire of hearing from.

Organize my work, social life, etc around them.

Or just cast the above aside, if I can't make time.

Feel desperate and needy, even though I've only sent one text message.

They randomly pop up in my thoughts during work, or whenever.

A joke that they told a month ago still makes me break out into a stupid grin.

The thought of them makes my toes curl; the sight of them nearly buckles my knees.

That. Very that.
 

Xander

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When the presence of the person fails to intrude but their absence does.
 

Martin997

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when your friends start to think your acting wierd and/or have been replaced with a twisted copy of yourself!
 

Grungemouse

Widdles in your cream.
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^ Related to the above post:

When someone asks why you're always in a good mood, and you didn't even realise.
 

indiajones

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when the person I love thinks I hate her.

Agreed. my relationships always start off Pride and Prejudice esque Or more like my fave Shakespeare Much Ado About Nothing. Yeah I realize how sentimental that sounds... but its not
 

poppy

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when your friends start to think your acting wierd and/or have been replaced with a twisted copy of yourself!

Or rather, a much better copy of yourself :laugh:

(Like Grungemouse said hehe)
 
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