Veneti
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- Aug 19, 2007
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Well,
I just Intuitively realised the other day that the reason why INTJ's in their early stages of "attraction/affection" can be so wrong (their Achilles heel) is due to not understanding that others do not act in a predictive way.
Effectively, they see reciprocation of potential attraction (Because they are an I and aren't very good at expressing themselves) in terms of the patterns they predict. S/he did act in a certain way, therefore S/he must be playing mind games etc etc etc.
It’s a function of over analysing, making predictive extrapolations and being introverted so they get into a circular loop.
Anybody agree?
I just Intuitively realised the other day that the reason why INTJ's in their early stages of "attraction/affection" can be so wrong (their Achilles heel) is due to not understanding that others do not act in a predictive way.
Effectively, they see reciprocation of potential attraction (Because they are an I and aren't very good at expressing themselves) in terms of the patterns they predict. S/he did act in a certain way, therefore S/he must be playing mind games etc etc etc.
It’s a function of over analysing, making predictive extrapolations and being introverted so they get into a circular loop.
Anybody agree?