[NT] NTs: How would you describe your ideal SO?

[ThatGirl]

Define freakishly smart.

Smarter than myself.

 

[Salt n' pepper]

Freakishly smart, strong willed, not easily influenced, high degree of integrity, motivated, has already "found" them self, not easily offended or intimidated.

........With hot man shoulders.

That! Also, I want someone who's already "complete".

 

[JonJT]

Smarter than myself.

Can I ask why you'd like to have a partner smarter than yourself? How smart do you consider yourself to be?

 

[Salt n' pepper]

Can I ask why you'd like to have a partner smarter than yourself? How smart do you consider yourself to be?

That's easy. You can learn a lot and he keeps things interesting and don't bore her to tears. She's THAT smart.

 

[JonJT]

That's easy. You can learn a lot and he keeps things interesting and don't bore her to tears. She's THAT smart.

I can learn a lot from a partner whom I'd consider to be of equal mental capacity, although I suppose being with someone who is smarter than you are would guarantee an enlightening experience.

 

[ChocolateMoose123]

Great pointers in this thread! I'm happy that I fulfill a lot of them.



Too bad you live in Florida and you're 11 years older than I am. 30 is pushing it for me agewise. But still.

Hey! I may be 30 but I look 25!

Besides, don't you know that every young man should have a Mrs. Robinson?!

(Oh, and don't trip over my cane when you get into bed, okay, dearie? I keep it by the nightstand. )

 

[runvardh]

Hey! I may be 30 but I look 25!

Besides, don't you know that every young man should have a Mrs. Robinson?!

(Oh, and don't trip over my cane when you get into bed, okay, dearie? I keep it by the nightstand. )

Well, you have to grant him that the kitten has balls. Only thing holding me from finding your wants tempting is my lack of passport.

 

[violet_crown]

The recent influx of relationship threads in the NT and NF communes makes me wonder if its the iNtuitive mating season or something.

 

[runvardh]

Na, we're just subconsciously gearing up for fall. Gotta keep that bed warm in the winter, especially once you get north of 45.

 

[entropie]

Freakishly smart, strong willed, not easily influenced, high degree of integrity, motivated, has already "found" them self, not easily offended or intimidated.

........With hot man shoulders.

That's like the perfect victim to every playboy in a 500 mile radius

 

[violet_crown]

That's like the perfect victim to every playboy in a 500 mile radius

*shudders involuntarily*

 

[entropie]

*shudders involuntarily*

Welcome to the real world

 

[violet_crown]

Welcome to the real world

Darlin, if it was actually anything close to my first rodeo I would've argued with you.

 

[entropie]

whatever

 

[entropie]

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[Udog]

The recent influx of relationship threads in the NT and NF communes makes me wonder if its the iNtuitive mating season or something.

I'm sure it won't be long before the gratuitous leg humping.

*re-reads thread*

Oh, too late.

 

[Bougal]

He needs to:
- be passionate about something.
- be as smart, if not smarter, than I am.
- be capable of holding a conversation with me for hours and hours.
- be insightful.
- be adventurous.
- make me laugh.
- share similar ideologies with me (mainly religiously).
- have a lot of knowledge that they can teach me.
- love to learn.
- have odd and sudden realizations of beauty around them.
- be in my height range (6'0" +)
- enjoy the outdoors
- be physical in a way I enjoy.
- allow me to show my slight romantic side.
- be supportive of me and my dreams.
- enjoy generating plots to take over the world (devising plans like such is a good bonding experience.)
- love my oddness
- make me feel beautiful (I'm confident, but I have experienced one connection where the way he looked at me made me feel invincible and loved.)
- be able to be my equal and my partner. No Damsels.

He cannot:
- expect me to be a stay at home trophy wife.
- be emotionally weak or moody.
- be easily offended.
- be too touchy feely too soon.
- be too clingy.
- hate cats.

 

[violet_crown]

I'm sure it won't be long before the gratuitous leg humping.

*re-reads thread*

Oh, too late.

Oh theyre just having fun. Not saying I think that leg humpings fun, but if other did then I would be ok with that. Not like its my place to judge or anything, but if you were the kind of person who enjoyed that then its ok. Not to say youre the kind that enjoys leg humping or anything. I mean...uh...I...you know *clears throat*, Im gonna step out for a second. IDIOT

 

[Blank]

Fuck, this is such a hard question for me for a myriad of reasons. I don't really know what my SO would be like, because it's difficult enough for me to connect with people on a regular basis. I mean, I could theorize, but sometimes what we want for ourselves isn't what's really ideal, y'know what I mean?

Here's a short list, I guess, of what I think I want in an SO.

1. Doesn't do drugs/doesn't drink in excess.
2. Someone who's able to accept me for all of my quirks.
3. Preferably someone who would broaden my horizons
4. Someone who I can't read like an open book, is intelligent, and someone who is not overly religious. (Preferably not a Christian.)

I suppose #3 is the easiest on the list, but I'm not compatible with very many people, so numbers 1, 2, and 4 are a bit harder to come by.

EDIT: I can't stand fake bitches. And one more thing I would like to have is someone whom I would not get into fights with. Being able to calmly sit down with someone and come to a conclusion with a level-head is beyond priceless.

 

[ChocolateMoose123]

Well, you have to grant him that the kitten has balls. Only thing holding me from finding your wants tempting is my lack of passport.

*bats eyelashes*

Greencards are available!