Verfremdungseffekt
videodrones; questions
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Sounds exhausting.I have so much NF goo all over me that I can't even find my NT sometimes.
I've some handi-wipes here, if that will help.
Sounds exhausting.I have so much NF goo all over me that I can't even find my NT sometimes.
Sounds exhausting.
I've some handi-wipes here, if that will help.
Seriously,
Don't give me this I am so out of touch with my emotions crap. You are all smart people. You understand MBTI. So why, with all your knowledge are you so goddamn proud at your dysfunction and assholery? You would think, if you were a real NT, that you would be ashamed at what you have not perfected.
I'm not knocking the autistic I am saying. Are you retarded?
If not, then why would you be so proud to be cold.
This signifies one of two things to me,
A) You're not an NT
B) You think it is cool to be disconnected
Now both of these theories seem really interesting to me in that they probably signify some other deeply rooted emotional issue. Which in itself is ironic. No?
It reminds me of a Bill Hicks sketch:
"Don't you hate those people that come up to you and say ... 'hey you know it takes less energy to smile than it does to frown?' 'Yeah, you know it takes me energy to point that out than it does to leave me alone?'"
There are some NTs who will intentionally target-practice an F's sore spots.
But some Fs are extremely quick to assume that's what an NT is doing when he isn't. And even when the NT tries to explain he was merely speaking candidly and meant no harm, some NFs refuse to believe it.
I think they assume that because that's what they do.
I wouldn't personally consider it to be 'out of touch with my emotions'. Rather, I would consider it to be 'having control over my emotions'.
On average, the NT values emotional willpower more than the other Keirsey temperaments.
I think it's the nature of the internet to encourage gratuitous self-obsession and the belief that our little differences are incredibly important. Some NTs who are looking for a unique public identity may latch on to their asshole-ness and try and magnify it. Maybe for some it's better to be an asshole than unnoticed. Of course, I'm talking about the NTs who take a great deal of pride in their supposed heartlessness. I think it's a case of people looking for an identity. And I think that there are certain immature or lost people simply imagine themselves to be NTs because NTs seem so masculine, strong, and disconnected from emotional pain.
Sure, some NTs are genuine NTs. Some are also genuine assholes. But when some of them constantly mention what big assholes they are, I do have to wonder their agenda behind it. Like, yeah, you've told me 100 times that you're a heartless bastard. Why do you care enough about that fact to constantly bring it up?
I do think the internet has a HUGE influence on our perception here. I rarely meet other NTs in the real world, and they're almost always easy-going.
Does strict neutrality only seem "cold" to Feelers ?
If you ( as an "F" oriented person ) were a new member of a team consisting of mostly "T"'s, would you not expect some voluntary "welcome" from these incumbents, or at least information helping to bring you up to speed on informal past actions and positions among the group ? I think it would be reasonable to expect that, unless you had already demonstrated a stubbornness to all these positions, come what may.
Explaining the complexities of this are such that some people ( sincerely or not ) may simply say "tl/dr"...
I have so much NF goo all over me that I can't even find my NT sometimes.
There are some NTs who will intentionally target-practice an F's sore spots.
But some Fs are extremely quick to assume that's what an NT is doing when he isn't. And even when the NT tries to explain he was merely speaking candidly and meant no harm, some Fs refuse to believe it.
I think they assume that because that's what they do.
"Why are you an ASSHOLE?" is a valid question? You're surprised by the reactions? Is "why are you stoopid" a valid question too?
I think it may be because NTs are generally not as emotional as other people due to them not being as aware of them.