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    Senior Member professor goodstain's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kai View Post
    It was fun arguing with the others on the board. Apologies for hijacking the thread when it was obvious you weren't looking to start a debate.

    I think Into its right has the right idea.

    There's very little chance that he'll change. While he may understand other point of perspective, it's not really going to affect his final decision on the matter. The best way is to target his core beliefs that support this...

    a) His belief that the boy is emotionally mature enough. That the women is sane. Find evidence to contradict either statement.

    b) Find a 'normal' adult-child relationship that reflects how individuals might feel after breaking up. Whether they feel exploited etc

    It's difficult because... You're essentially asking him to view from the perspective that all adult/children relationships will be exploitive. What are his core beliefs that support the whole thing? Is it a let and let live mentality?
    lol. Perhaps this could end up in gun violence somewhere down the line.
    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    Kai, if you think that the child has a love which is so much more mature than his parents' and all of society's understanding, then I can see why you would disagree - because in your eyes, love conquers all. If you see nothing wrong with romantic relationships between adults and children (other than from social conditioning), then I am not going to convince you otherwise. I don't know your age, gender or background, but I truly hope that if you have children (now or in the future), that you protect them to the best of your ability. I'm not going to go any further with this conversation. Thanks for the honest sparring!
    Thanks. The same goes for you.

    It'll be a while before I have children but of course. I'm an ISFJ. xD
    There's a huge difference between how I'll act and what I believe is ideal. Eitherway I'll take all the details into consideration if I need to guide my children.

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