[NT] How to mess with an NT's head

[Amargith]

Not every ENFP will tell you that how you live is wrong, sweety. Some identify very much with constantly being told that your way of living, of being is wrong and the frustration and aggrevation it causes.
But even so, many of us will gladly back off if you indicate that you'd rather not be around us. At least, I don't tend to stay where I'm not wanted. Too bad though...I enjoyed bantering back and forward with ya

One last time of pushing your buttons though...just to get the thread back on topic:

It wouldn't hurt you to smile once in a while

 

[sonata]

It wouldn't hurt you to smile once in a while

Yep, that works.
To add on to that:

Give us a look of pity and ask what's wrong (preferably when we're happy). When we give you a blank look and say "Nothing," insist that something must be wrong and assure us, "You can talk to me."

 

[Domino]

Its okay Chimy, be strong. It could be worse, you could look like my little baby avatar.

How do you know he doesn't?

Oh man.. I need to read threads before I reply to them.. I almost didn't know to break out the popcorn

I demand that the NFs and NTs make up, NOW. :steam:

Making out? Or just naughty looks from across the room?

How to mess with an NT's head? Cry. Preferably for no reason.

Sloppy, relentless, protracted crying.

Yep, that works.
To add on to that:

Give us a look of pity and ask what's wrong (preferably when we're happy). When we give you a blank look and say "Nothing," insist that something must be wrong and assure us, "You can talk to me."

Sonata. What's wrong? You can talk to me.

 

[Blank]

Demanding to know on what facts their theoretical hypotheses stand.

 

[Ardea]

Demanding to know on what facts their theoretical hypotheses stand.

Because who remembers where THOSE THINGS are from anyway, right?!

Ugh. I hate that one.

 

[Kalach]

How to mess with an NTs head... take off your clothes.

How to mess with an NT's head? Cry. Preferably for no reason.

And cry.

Then explain that there's nothing wrong.

And put your clothes on to cuddle.

 

[Qre:us]

And put your clothes on to cuddle.

You're too hairy to cuddle skin to skin, panda baby. :hi:

 

[Kalach]

You're too hairy to cuddle skin to skin, panda baby. :hi:

Bring a razor and we'll pretend I'm virile.

 

[Chimerical]

Not every ENFP will tell you that how you live is wrong, sweety. Some identify very much with constantly being told that your way of living, of being is wrong and the frustration and aggrevation it causes.
But even so, many of us will gladly back off if you indicate that you'd rather not be around us. At least, I don't tend to stay where I'm not wanted. Too bad though...I enjoyed bantering back and forward with ya

One last time of pushing your buttons though...just to get the thread back on topic:

It wouldn't hurt you to smile once in a while

How about an evil grin?
*grinning*

 

[Amargith]

oh..my fav kind

 

[Cindyrella]

There are rare occasions when my husband - INTP - insists something is fact, and therefore is right, and does not want me to argue with him based on emotions/feelings. And me being INFP, I argue anyway. lol

 

[norepinephrine]

There are rare occasions when my husband - INTP - insists something is fact, and therefore is right, and does not want me to argue with him based on emotions/feelings. And me being INFP, I argue anyway. lol

That wouldn't exactly "mess with my head" but it would frustrate me.

A lot.

 

[squibbles]

- as does bringing in completely irrelevant topics and insisting on their logical and rational relevance. Be sure to use those words. OFTEN.

- also change your stance every so often and insist you've been on that side all along

- tell them that not following rules is a rule itself

- undermine independence, and reiterate their dependency to others. Bonus points if you can give examples

- tell them to stop being so 'emotional' in the middle of an argument.

- call Science a conspiracy

- ask them to explain their jokes...each and every time

- deliberately recall the past falsely, esp. with regards to relevant facts to a discussion

AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!:horor:


This happened to me a few weeks ago....honestly one of the most infuriating conversations ever.

 

[Kasper]

Debate with emotion not logic, in fact completely defy logic. Be sincere while doing this. Crying is optional.

 

[blanclait]

type i usually have difficulties with are few SJs
they seem to argue about something but i don't understand, what.

and all they do is nitpick at small facts that hardly contribute to the overall discussion.
i ask them what is it that they are trying to prove, and they never give me a straight answer. and they just ramble on and on. which gets really annoying.

and proceeds to say i'm going off topic.
Is this sign of undeveloped intuiton? b/c i have a good ISTJ friend i socialize very often and he obviously doesnt do this. And can actually organize and state what it is that he wants from the argument.


feelings are fine, but i don't like it when someone say : "its just wrong b/c it is"
when a better logical solution is present.

 

[Cindyrella]

That wouldn't exactly "mess with my head" but it would frustrate me.

A lot.

Wouldn't that essentially be messing with your head?

 

[Edgar]

The only way someone can mess with my head is by touching my 'do, and when that happens, all bets are off.

 

[Risen]

Messing with my head means being passive aggressive, more specifically telling me you're mad at me and refusing to reveal the reason why, even to the extent of making me guess why you're mad and still not revealing the answer. Keeping knowledge away from me is the worst. That usually only works if I'm really close to someone though.

 

[plaguerat]

And the other half of NTs throw a grand celebration.

LOL yes we do.

 

[Lasting_Pain]

- Say you have to leave in the middle of a heated debate.