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[ENTJ] I have an ENTJ friend who compliments me all the time...

ReadingRainbows

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Just really really nice stuff. Like how sweet I am...kind hearted etc etc. (He works with me) He says he generally doesnt have good female friends, but he likes me. He always is telling me how wonderful I am etc...
Could it be he is complimenting me like this because he likes me as more than a friend? He also goes out of his way to talk to me at times.
I'm not used to ENTJs I'm more able to read other types..
Can someone explain this to me?
 

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Just really really nice stuff. Like how sweet I am...kind hearted etc etc. (He works with me) He says he generally doesnt have good female friends, but he likes me. He always is telling me how wonderful I am etc...
Could it be he is complimenting me like this because he likes me as more than a friend? He also goes out of his way to talk to me at times.
I'm not used to ENTJs I'm more able to read other types..
Can someone explain this to me?

He knows you're a girl and girls respond to sweetness. He wants your drawers.
 

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I complement girls who I am attracted to but am not in a position to pursue.
 

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I complement girls who I am attracted to but am not in a position to pursue.

You compliment girls who you are attracted to who you know would be scared off before you establish a certain rapport as well. MUST. SIGNAL. KINDNESS. TRUSTWORTHINESS. APPEAR. NON-THREATENING.
 

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As an ENTJ... Yeah, he wants to get into your pants. He might not even be aware of it.
Generally i'm quite nice, but I do not go out of my way to be nice.
If I do that, I generally like someone extra much.
 

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Yea, ENTJ's are pretty purposeful about everything they do.
I would be skeptical of an ENTJ complimenting you "just because".

(Signed, an ENTJ's girlfriend.)
 

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I was afraid of that. Thanks :)

I should disclaim that I will pretty much cock block anyone for any reason just because. So, take what I say with a grain of salt. He could just be being nice. But, I doubt it.
 

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You compliment girls who you are attracted to who you know would be scared off before you establish a certain rapport as well. MUST. SIGNAL. KINDNESS. TRUSTWORTHINESS. APPEAR. NON-THREATENING.

I've got the rapport thing down too. ;)
 

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Are all ENTJ's bastards? Sure seems like it. :blush:

What is bastardly or bad about being honest against oneself?
You guys are just as bad ;) Maybe in a different manner, though :D
 

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You guys are just as bad ;) Maybe in a different manner, though :D

(Listens to my ENTJ arguing on the phone for a minute, reads this post.)


Nah. ENTJs are always the baddest. ;)
 

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I should disclaim that I will pretty much cock block anyone for any reason just because. So, take what I say with a grain of salt. He could just be being nice. But, I doubt it.

..You must enjoy that *snickers*
 

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Are you sure you want to get involved, (and possibly get in bed) with a soulless empty-complimenter???
These people will suck you into their black relationship holes until the end of time!

(This post was my own personal cry for help.)
 
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