The NT woman probably: *Huge generalizations here*
- Is comfortable eating lunch by herself Yep
- Is comfortable taking herself to a movie Yep
- Would be the one under the hood of her car wearing dress clothes Well, don't have a car, but I've gone for a walk in the forest with 11 cm high heels, does that count?
- Has stacks of books in her house and has a favorite author Hell yeah
- Likes computers Yep, since I was 3.
- Plays guitar Nope, but I play guitar on a rubber band, does that count?
- Doesn't wear dresses and frilly things very often, but when she does she rocks it and people wonder why they haven't noticed her before... and then goes back to her usual garm for another six months TOTALLY ME!!!!
The problem with any NT (male or female) is that they don't seem to be (often) very proactive with finding someone. Yep. They kind of lurk on the sidelines, measuring people up and going about their business until someone catches their eye for whatever reason. Yep. Then they slowwwwly start working up to having a friendship with the person to find out if this person who caught their eye is a 'good match'. Yep. Their criteria for 'good match' is as individual as they are... but that one red flag that comes up may be enough to send them back to their corner with a 'Hrm. Thats too bad.' mentality. Yep.
HOLY CRAP I'm an NT!!! *runs for her life* Nooooo it can't beeeeeeee!!!!!!
"Just as the wolf embraced the fires of men and chose to stay,
The way they trusted life and limb in mutual exchange...
Your grip on me will only last as long as I allow.
Until you earn my trust, we speak in terms of here-and-now.
Let me come to you my dear, I promise that I will.
Just focus on your breathing and continue standing still.
Keep your voice from shouting, and although you feel as much...
Keep your arms from reaching out to steal a tiny touch.
A sudden move from you will send me scrambling away...
Just offer me your hand, until I know that I am safe.
Let me come to you my dear, I promise that I will.
Just focus on your breathing and continue standing still."