INFJs, what about ENFPs catch your attention (if we do at all?)
I have a friend whos an INFJ and I've been trying to get closer to him and deepen our friendship. I really, really admire and respect him and love him as a person/unique individual. But I want to show him that in the best ways possible.
These are things that I'm currently trying to do:
1. listen to him during our conversations
2. remember little details (I got him cider donuts because he said he's always wanted to try some)
3. tell him I appreciate him
4. invite him to events/show that I really want to spend time (i somehow find excuses to visit his apartment)
5. give him space by not messaging as often as i'd like to... :')
6. let him tease me, but also teasing back to show that I can take it and that I like his raw self
What else can I do? What specific actions do you guys like to see/receive or phrases do you guys like to hear? But also.. what overwhelms you? I can be pretty enthusiastic and well, not clingy, but persistent. I want to show that I care and remember him, but I don't want to like.. freak him out with all the attention. It's hard to keep my energy down as to not overwhelm him sometimes T_T
He actually doesn't like myers briggs/personality tests as they make him feel confined to a certain image/type, so I also try not to talk about this kind of stuff too much in front of him...
I also think that he appreciates my attempts to get him out of his apt since he's mentioned that though our friends hang out a lot and sometimes he's too tired to come out to every gathering, that he wants to hang out with us.
I just want him to think of me sometimes too.. I feel like it's just me always thinking about how I can be a better friend to him.. what are some ways to keep me on his mind?
please & ty in advance <3
I have a friend whos an INFJ and I've been trying to get closer to him and deepen our friendship. I really, really admire and respect him and love him as a person/unique individual. But I want to show him that in the best ways possible.
These are things that I'm currently trying to do:
1. listen to him during our conversations
2. remember little details (I got him cider donuts because he said he's always wanted to try some)
3. tell him I appreciate him
4. invite him to events/show that I really want to spend time (i somehow find excuses to visit his apartment)
5. give him space by not messaging as often as i'd like to... :')
6. let him tease me, but also teasing back to show that I can take it and that I like his raw self
What else can I do? What specific actions do you guys like to see/receive or phrases do you guys like to hear? But also.. what overwhelms you? I can be pretty enthusiastic and well, not clingy, but persistent. I want to show that I care and remember him, but I don't want to like.. freak him out with all the attention. It's hard to keep my energy down as to not overwhelm him sometimes T_T
He actually doesn't like myers briggs/personality tests as they make him feel confined to a certain image/type, so I also try not to talk about this kind of stuff too much in front of him...
I also think that he appreciates my attempts to get him out of his apt since he's mentioned that though our friends hang out a lot and sometimes he's too tired to come out to every gathering, that he wants to hang out with us.
I just want him to think of me sometimes too.. I feel like it's just me always thinking about how I can be a better friend to him.. what are some ways to keep me on his mind?
please & ty in advance <3
