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[ENFP] What do ENFPs find attractive in other people?

animenagai

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titties. big ones.
















































i also like people who are funny, aren't too high strung, clever and creative.

ps. don't go insane ladies, somehow the girls that i like all tend to be more ummm... streamlined.
 

SillySapienne

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I like big ol' titties too!!!

OHHHH, YEAH!!!
 

JivinJeffJones

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i also like people who are funny, aren't too high strung, clever and creative.

Wait - so you like people who are funny but aren't "too high strung, clever and creative"? Nice. Clever and creative people irritate me too.
 

SillySapienne

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- Intelligence

- Integrity

- Sense of humor

- Independent thinkers

- Kindness

- Open-Mindedness

- Stability/Consistency/Reliability (yes, these are things that I sometimes lack ;) )

- Oddness (in a good way, and not a creepy way)

- Authenticity/Originality- in other words, a real character

- Good intentions

- Temperance

- Lack of religiosity, preferably to the extent of being agnostic or athiest

- Sensuality is a plus, but it is not a must.

- A love for nature

- Inquisitiveness

- Sarcasm (at moderate levels)

- Dryness, to a certain extent

- Introvertedness

- Myriad manifestations of nerdiness

- Outdoorsy-ness

- "I don't give a fuck about society"-ness

And that is all I can think of right now

:)
 

TickTock

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I tick all of those, but every tom, dick and harry would too.
 

VanillaCat

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I like people who make me think. And I LOOOOVE to laugh.

So, if someone can make insanely clever jokes, I'm hooked!
 

LadyJaye

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I have to agree with authenticity. Anyone who owns themselves, meaning they fully accept their strengths and limitations, and can be honest about them. I also appreciate a sense of humor, as I'm a pretty silly person generally, and intellectual curiosity, because I love to learn about new things and people.
 

phoenix13

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Intensity's a big one. Part of that is extremeness/depth of feeling. Hmmm, but the intensity would be diamond-like rather than fire-like. It's an introverted intensity... compressed.

...but the BIGGEST attraction is a guy who treats people well. Someone who respects human dignity, who's slow to judge/condemn, who holds people and knowledge in highest regard, who's always looking to grow and learn, who's humble, honest... ahhhh, I'm getting turned on you guys... not kidding...
*breathe*
OK, so an intense person with a soul that outshines the morning star. Second tier attractions include art appreciation/talent, patience, and cooking ability. Regarding that last one: I'm not picky, he can make mac&cheese all he wants, but nothing melts my heart like free food.

EDIT: Someone who accepts and appreciates ENFPs for who and what they are is HUGELY attractive.
 

animenagai

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Intensity's a big one. Part of that is extremeness/depth of feeling. Hmmm, but the intensity would be diamond-like rather than fire-like. It's an introverted intensity... compressed.

...but the BIGGEST attraction is a guy who treats people well. Someone who respects human dignity, who's slow to judge/condemn, who holds people and knowledge in highest regard, who's always looking to grow and learn, who's humble, honest... ahhhh, I'm getting turned on you guys... not kidding...
*breathe*
OK, so an intense person with a soul that outshines the morning star. Second tier attractions include art appreciation/talent, patience, and cooking ability. Regarding that last one: I'm not picky, he can make mac&cheese all he wants, but nothing melts my heart like free food.

EDIT: Someone who accepts and appreciates ENFPs for who and what they are is HUGELY attractive.

intense person with a moral standard? :hi:

edit: shit, she said humble!
 

Clownmaster

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Intelligence, Ability to communicate, intensity, sexiness
 

IEE623

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intellectuality, passion, felicitous articulation, etc.
for short.... {WISDOM}
 

Amargith

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intelligence, arrogance, non-judgemental nature, doesn't mind a bit of flirting ;)
It also helps if he's fascinated by odd and random phenomenons :p
 

Edgar

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intelligence, arrogance, non-judgemental nature, doesn't mind a bit of flirting ;)
It also helps if he's fascinated by odd and random phenomenons :p

Usually, arrogance and non-judgmental do not go hand in hand.

But if he is both those things, he would be an "odd and random phenomenon", and would be fascinated with himself, making him a narcissist.
 

Amargith

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LOL, however logical that sounds,I'm afraid I have to tell you you're wrong. I'm dating an INTJ who is like that :) He is non-judgemental on who I am, arrogant about his abilities (which is very appealing ;)) and he loves trying to make sense out of the randomness I create in our lives :). And I can vouch that he is not at all narcissistic.
 
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