[ENFP] An ENFP's Bedroom - can you relate?

[Mal12345]

If you're an ENFP, then you might have a messy bedroom:

 

[chickpea]

is this your step-daughter's room?

 

[Mal12345]

is this your step-daughter's room?

No. She's an ESFP anyway.

 

[Yama]

My mom is an ENFP and her entire house is a mess because she's a hoarder. Not like the TV show level of hoarding but still. And living with that my entire life is, I think, what caused me to develop OCPD around the time I started college and got away from that environment. I mean, I don't think it's a characteristic of an ENFP to have a messy living space, but yeah, I know of one.

 

[Starry]

Where are all the plates of rotting food?

 

[Smilephantomhive]

That's not so bad.

 

[CitizenErased]

Mine is thousands of times worse than that. To recreate my room you need:

-A layer of dirty clothes.
-A layer of dirty plates, trays, etc.
-A layer of papers, notebooks, pencils, dirty brushes.
-A layer of plastic bags and food packaging.
-A chair with clothes you'll rescue from the floor because you could wear them at least once more.
-Open drawers with nothing in them (because everything is on the floor).
-A bed that has never been made.
-College stuff on the bed (that at night moves itself on the clothes you salvaged on the chair).
(Optional) Dead bodies.

If you take a sample of the floor, following the layers I just mentioned, you'll have a pretty good idea of how many months it's been since mommy came to visit.

 

[Mal12345]

That's not so bad.

It's bad when her elderly mother straightens up the room but throws things away that shouldn't be thrown away.

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Mine is thousands of times worse than that. To recreate my room you need:

-A layer of dirty clothes.
-A layer of dirty plates, trays, etc.
-A layer of papers, notebooks, pencils, dirty brushes.
-A layer of plastic bags and food packaging.
-A chair with clothes you'll rescue from the floor because you could wear them at least once more.
-Open drawers with nothing in them (because everything is on the floor).
-A bed that has never been made.
-College stuff on the bed (that at night moves itself on the clothes you salvaged on the chair).
(Optional) Dead bodies.

If you take a sample of the floor, following the layers I just mentioned, you'll have a pretty good idea of how many months it's been since mommy came to visit.

Are you an ENFP? Yes I know I didn't specify who should relate or not.

 

[Smilephantomhive]

It's bad when her elderly mother straightens up the room but throws things away that shouldn't be thrown away.

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Are you an ENFP? Yes I know I didn't specify who should relate or not.

That's inconsiderate.

 

[Mal12345]

That's inconsiderate.

My wife says that one reason she married me is because I am such a considerate person.

 

[Smilephantomhive]

My wife says that one reason she married me is because I am such a considerate person.

Good for you.

 

[Amargith]

Looks about right. My bookshelves have been known to hold kiwi's

These days i have a cleaning lady so i declutter at least once a week

 

[hjgbujhghg]

I'm an INFP and my room looks far worse than the one in the picture

 

[hjgbujhghg]

Where are all the plates of rotting food?

Definitely in my room

 

[PumpkinMayCare]

No, I don't. I used to have a really messy apartment and be unorganized and messy in general (except when it came to food and dirty plates - always found it disgusting how people wouldn't throw it away or wash their dirty flatware). That went on until I was 23 and began putting stuff back right after usage and start with a schedule for cleaining and tidying up. Last thing is what I do everyday.
I just enjoy having a tidy apartment. I also put a little bit of effort in furnishing and decorating my apartment. (I have a theme going on in every room: Kitchen has the 60's theme, living room has a tropical style/nature theme, bathroom modern, kind of how modern upper-class hotels arrange them). Why then let it become messy and unclean? Wouldn't have needed to bother with furnishing it in the first place. Also, oh man, I do enjoy knowing where my stuff is at, LOL. Just makes every day living easier.

I'm convinced I'm not the only ENFP my age who doesn't find it hard keeping a clean and tidy apartment.

 

[Hiraeth]

That's almost my room in a nutshell except there's paint stains all over the floor too and crumpled pieces of paper with a bunch of other knick-knacks everywhere. Probably it's more of an FP thing in general.

 

[Abcdenfp]

One of the first things I treated myself to was having someone come regularly to clean . I just can't, but I like my living space to be fun so I like to decorate but cleaning??!????? My minds like no ..
it makes me SO happy not to have to do it honestly. I want it to be clean but asking me to do household chores is a form of torture

 

[Amargith]

First thing I told my then new boyfriend was: 'I don't do wify-things like cleaning and I hate cooking, so please think twice if you are looking for that in a girlfriend'

Thankfully, he wasn't.

I do however enjoy a tidy space and absolutely love decorating it to give it the right vibe. The maintenance of that space however is just...not my god-given gift

 

[Red Memories]

XD no the stuff is all over the floor and windowsill.

 

[Starry]

Mine is thousands of times worse than that. To recreate my room you need:

-A layer of dirty clothes.
-A layer of dirty plates, trays, etc.
-A layer of papers, notebooks, pencils, dirty brushes.
-A layer of plastic bags and food packaging.
-A chair with clothes you'll rescue from the floor because you could wear them at least once more.
-Open drawers with nothing in them (because everything is on the floor).
-A bed that has never been made.
-College stuff on the bed (that at night moves itself on the clothes you salvaged on the chair).
(Optional) Dead bodies.

If you take a sample of the floor, following the layers I just mentioned, you'll have a pretty good idea of how many months it's been since mommy came to visit.

I was totally cracking up reading this thinking "core sample"...