[ENFJ] How to be Noticed by an ENFJ?

[Mocha]

I've had a crush on a girl in my class for a long time now, and I'm pretty sure she's an ENxJ, most likely ENFJ. Is there any certain way I should act around her or certain things I should do? She's very sweet when I talk to her, but I don't know how I should advance to a deeper relationship with her. Help is appreciated!

 

[balloongod]

I would say that the majority of ENFJs loathe in-authenticity... so just be yourself! That's the best shot you have at a good relationship with them. (Or anyone, for that matter.)

That being said, while only talking about things you both like can maintain a shallow relationship, it can be a great in to get to know somebody. Does she like anime, or does she have any buttons on her backpack that you relate to? Does she wear a Supernatural scarf? Always carry a mug of coffee everywhere she goes? Use it as an in. When you're both sitting at the coffee shop, or in art club, or with a bunch of friends going to see Logan, you can have a chance at better conversation.

I'm crazy attracted to passion and enthusiasm, even if I don't care for the subject of the passion in particular. If you've got a love for something, flaunt it.

Best of luck.

 

[Forever]

Inappropriate advice:

Well if you want you can just come to school naked. Sure you're going to be arrested for exhibition and possibly be labeled a sex predator for the rest of your life but that's one way for you to be noticed.

Real advice: just talk to her (with your clothes on)

 

[VILLANELLE]

Just be yourself, talk to her about stuff you both like. Try and do something together, like a movie or a concert or something. Not as a date, but see if things go from there?

 

[1487610420]

say hi

make sure you get the mortgage and prenup papers ready first tho

 

[Tilt]

Be engaging and act interested in talking to her.

 

[kotoshinohaisha]

Oh you're an infp. I think you'll get along well. Just be yourself. Enfjs are naturally attracted with infp you know.

I have an enfj friend i don't know what the fuck is wrong with that stupid guy, sometimes he'll be away and would not even check me out or reply back or anything.. Until after one month, he'll just gonna say, "i feel sad that i wasn't able to keep up with you because i like you very much"

Tsssch. He's always saying that. I already fed up. XD he's like a ghoster, he'll just suddenly ghost you in the middle of your craziness with him.. And then if you already got over him, he'll be back, smooching you with sweet fucking words. But i don't believe it anymore. Action speaks louder than words. Fuck off you enfj people pleasing dork.