thistlechaser
New member
- Joined
- May 12, 2014
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 5w6
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
It's ultimatum city today. Told the roommate he has 30 days to get out.
The on again off again ex who keeps blocking me and unblocking me the next day I told that I was very clear about my need for emotional support when I am dissociated rather than anger and catastrophic thinking and then attempts at problem solving that usually revolve around his insecurities. And he tries to explain his feelings to me like I CAN'T FUCKING ALREADY FEEL THEM WAAAAAY BEFORE HE DOES
I really really just need for the people who don't like how I am to get the hell out of my life because I'm not bending anymore. I have limitations and I know what they are and I don't need anyone's help except my therapist's and especially not people who have any kind of emotional or financial agenda for living with or dating me. That's not unbiased and it's bullshit when people try to act like they can come in and teach me stuff when they blatantly ignore and walk all over what I've been very clear about needing.
People just need to stick to what they say they need. And actually do it this time (this is the only part that's directed at me cause damn am I right about all the stuff I just said, and there's 0% chance I'm wrong).
All I asked for was for him to spray his cologne or body spray or whatever in his room rather than the bathroom. I didn't even tell him how gross it smells.
The on again off again ex who keeps blocking me and unblocking me the next day I told that I was very clear about my need for emotional support when I am dissociated rather than anger and catastrophic thinking and then attempts at problem solving that usually revolve around his insecurities. And he tries to explain his feelings to me like I CAN'T FUCKING ALREADY FEEL THEM WAAAAAY BEFORE HE DOES
I really really just need for the people who don't like how I am to get the hell out of my life because I'm not bending anymore. I have limitations and I know what they are and I don't need anyone's help except my therapist's and especially not people who have any kind of emotional or financial agenda for living with or dating me. That's not unbiased and it's bullshit when people try to act like they can come in and teach me stuff when they blatantly ignore and walk all over what I've been very clear about needing.
People just need to stick to what they say they need. And actually do it this time (this is the only part that's directed at me cause damn am I right about all the stuff I just said, and there's 0% chance I'm wrong).
All I asked for was for him to spray his cologne or body spray or whatever in his room rather than the bathroom. I didn't even tell him how gross it smells.
