Ikaruss
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- Apr 19, 2016
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
Recently, I've discovered myself a very unhealthy ENFP. It's almost heartbreaking to remember who I was two years ago.
I was always so brave, fearless and fierce. I found happiness in everything and I was an ocean of peace and energy. I had dreams and the determination to pursue them. The world was mine to conquer if I wanted. And I was a conquerer indeed: I conquered the trust of my friends, I'd be their pillar whenever they needed. To anyone, actually. I was able to bring the best in everyone and make them feel genuinely great. And I myself didn't feel as great as I had just made them, but that's what always made me happy. To make peopple feel good and adored. Everyone loved me and I was so overwhelmed with being around people and this energy. There was music and colours in the air.
Until the beginning of my rotting. Nowadays, I've withered down to brown, dry vines. I can't feel anything. Everything is grey and mute. I've grown to be an endless attention-seeking black hole and I've drained my girlfriend to our separation (2 days ago). I can't but feel only one thing: guilt. She said she couldn't handle her current life and saw that couldn't build anything else with me. When I asked her to be my girlfriend, she never told me she wasn't looking for it, but she accepted it anyway. And she is so incredible and so much for me. What the hell was I thinking to ask someone out when she has always been so out of my league? And she tells me she feels tenderness and admiration towards me but I know she means it all but I can't see it. I've completely shut down to compliments in this last year. Not only her, but my friends are trying their hardest to pull me from this hole, but my hands keep slipping, as if I really wanted to stay inside it.
And perhaps I want, because all I can feel is how useless I am, because I know how much of a burden I have become. And my, well now, ex told me I was being unfair to myself. But I can't see how that's unfair, you know. And I asked her to stop lying, in hopes of getting her to finally give up on me, but why does she keep doing this, trying to pull me from this endless hole? And she doesn't give up and tells me how I'm wonderful. How she loved everything we've done together, but everything I can think of is how I wasn't good enough to make up for her life's problems. It might not be my fault at all, but I can't but feel it's my fault. Everything is my fault.
I've always been closed shut to others according to my best friend. He also said I'm the most difficult person to talk to, because he never knows how much of me I'm showing him. He says I always seem distant. People let me get close, but I don't.
And it's not intentional. I've always done this but I don't know how to open myself. I've done it once and it was to someone I've known for 10 years.
And I don't have anyone to talk to about this. So please. Help me. Help me before I drift too far.
I was always so brave, fearless and fierce. I found happiness in everything and I was an ocean of peace and energy. I had dreams and the determination to pursue them. The world was mine to conquer if I wanted. And I was a conquerer indeed: I conquered the trust of my friends, I'd be their pillar whenever they needed. To anyone, actually. I was able to bring the best in everyone and make them feel genuinely great. And I myself didn't feel as great as I had just made them, but that's what always made me happy. To make peopple feel good and adored. Everyone loved me and I was so overwhelmed with being around people and this energy. There was music and colours in the air.
Until the beginning of my rotting. Nowadays, I've withered down to brown, dry vines. I can't feel anything. Everything is grey and mute. I've grown to be an endless attention-seeking black hole and I've drained my girlfriend to our separation (2 days ago). I can't but feel only one thing: guilt. She said she couldn't handle her current life and saw that couldn't build anything else with me. When I asked her to be my girlfriend, she never told me she wasn't looking for it, but she accepted it anyway. And she is so incredible and so much for me. What the hell was I thinking to ask someone out when she has always been so out of my league? And she tells me she feels tenderness and admiration towards me but I know she means it all but I can't see it. I've completely shut down to compliments in this last year. Not only her, but my friends are trying their hardest to pull me from this hole, but my hands keep slipping, as if I really wanted to stay inside it.
And perhaps I want, because all I can feel is how useless I am, because I know how much of a burden I have become. And my, well now, ex told me I was being unfair to myself. But I can't see how that's unfair, you know. And I asked her to stop lying, in hopes of getting her to finally give up on me, but why does she keep doing this, trying to pull me from this endless hole? And she doesn't give up and tells me how I'm wonderful. How she loved everything we've done together, but everything I can think of is how I wasn't good enough to make up for her life's problems. It might not be my fault at all, but I can't but feel it's my fault. Everything is my fault.
I've always been closed shut to others according to my best friend. He also said I'm the most difficult person to talk to, because he never knows how much of me I'm showing him. He says I always seem distant. People let me get close, but I don't.
And it's not intentional. I've always done this but I don't know how to open myself. I've done it once and it was to someone I've known for 10 years.
And I don't have anyone to talk to about this. So please. Help me. Help me before I drift too far.