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    Default What function of INFJ makes her attracted to players?

    I have an INFJ friend who is really smart, an advocate of human rights etc.


    Which function in INFJs make her attracted to the 'player' kind of guy? ie the cocky, has a long list of ex-gf kind

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanix View Post
    I have an INFJ friend who is really smart, an advocate of human rights etc.

    Which function in INFJs make her attracted to the 'player' kind of guy? ie the cocky, has a long list of ex-gf kind
    Se? Immature Se is looking for pleasure and excitement. I guess your friend likes the idea of the dangerous hot guy.

    As a young NFJ, I dated a lot of ESFPs, as I was looking for fun and pleasure, not a soul mate. Looking back, I pushed away the ENFPs and INFPs that pursued me, in large part because they saw right through me.

    NFJs, especially younger ones, like to be obscure. We don't want deep relationships for the most part.
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