[INFP] INTJ, ENTP, and INFP all under one roof

[Egor]

So, my INFP cousin will be coming to live in America for a year. MY INTJ boyfriend and I (ENTP) were considering letting her live with us rather than going through the hassle and expense of finding her own place. So before any decisions are made I was wondering what you NF's thought about it. Do you think an INFP would be comfortable living with an ENTP and INTJ for a year?

 

[Gizmo]

I'm an INTJ with an INFP roommate... My only complaint is his ESFP girlfriend.

 

[ceecee]

So, my INFP cousin will be coming to live in America for a year. MY INTJ boyfriend and I (ENTP) were considering letting her live with us rather than going through the hassle and expense of finding her own place. So before any decisions are made I was wondering what you NF's thought about it. Do you think an INFP would be comfortable living with an ENTP and INTJ for a year?

I think as long as everyone has some private space (bedroom or something) to decompress and chill, it will be ok. It's also important to not feel like you need to include your cousin in everything you and your BF do, she will want to do her own thing, make friends and spend time with them. I would also lay out any ground rules about your place from the get go. They may seen small now but even little things like someone using 10 glasses a day and leaving them all over would make me crazy.

 

[Pionart]

I wouldn't think an INTJ and ENTP would be comfortable living with each other, but anything is possible.

 

[Egor]

I wouldn't think an INTJ and ENTP would be comfortable living with each other, but anything is possible.

ENTP and INTJ are usually a pretty natural match. We've been together 5 years though, that's not the part I was worried about. We're fine. But I know us NTs can be pretty difficult to be around sometimes, I was wondering if anyone else thought the NF might feel uncomfortable.

 

[Egor]

I'm an INTJ with an INFP roommate... My only complaint is his ESFP girlfriend.

that sounds like hell ESFPs are fine and all... I don't think i could be around one for extended periods of time. I'm glad to know the INFP INTJ dynamic isn't troublesome for you though, my boyfriends the one I was mainly concerned abou... you guys can be prickly to say the least

 

[Gizmo]

that sounds like hell ESFPs are fine and all... I don't think i could be around one for extended periods of time. I'm glad to know the INFP INTJ dynamic isn't troublesome for you though, my boyfriends the one I was mainly concerned abou... you guys can be prickly to say the least

Very true.