[NF] INFPs + ENFJs = <3?

[lulabelle]

Curious to hear experiences with this partnership. I've read about some earlydays ENFJ-INFP couplings but very rarely have I heard of INFP-ENFJ longterm relationships or marriages. Do they exist? Are you in one?

I know that in socionics this pairing is 'extinguishment relations' so I wonder if it tends to play out this way irl. Personally, I don't know that I could handle all that extroverted energy and Fe but I certainly don't speak for all INFPs

Socionics - the16types.info - Extinguishment Relations

 

[Raffaella]

There's a thread covering this topic: http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/the-nf-idyllic/18313-enfj-infp.html

 

[lulabelle]

There's a thread covering this topic: http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/the-nf-idyllic/18313-enfj-infp.html

Oh okay. This site can be so tricky to navigate... I always try to search for things in the search bar and nothing comes up

Edit: Oh, I've definitely looked at part of that thread before. Looking again through the comments there doesn't seem to be too much mention of longterm ENFJ-INFP relationships and how they're going/went... it's mainly speculation and discussion of brief ENFJ-INFP interactions/new relationships.

 

[skippythecat]

{oops} didn't read the thread correctly, haha.

 

[Yaru]

Uhm. I've never been in that sort of relationship. I think I could stand the Extroversion as long as there's serious commitment and loyalty. What I'm not sure of is if I could ever be in a relationship with another Feeler.. You know. I have to be the drama queen of the situation. I cannot be deprived of such role. It could become competitive hahaha. I really need a T type to keep my feet on the ground and stimulate my reasoning and depend on. But it depends on what you want really.
A lot of factors have to be in counted. Love needs context.
I'd say it could be a good experience though.

 

[SpreeFirit]

Uhm. I've never been in that sort of relationship. I think I could stand the Extroversion as long as there's serious commitment and loyalty. What I'm not sure of is if I could ever be in a relationship with another Feeler.. You know. I have to be the drama queen of the situation. I cannot be deprived of such role. It could become competitive hahaha. I really need a T type to keep my feet on the ground and stimulate my reasoning and depend on. But it depends on what you want really.
A lot of factors have to be in counted. Love needs context.
I'd say it could be a good experience though.

Yes. ✌️I don't think I could be in a relationship with another feeler, either, and they don't attract me romantically. But INFPs are beautiful people. And so wonderful to create art with..