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[INFP] Are INFPs "sexy"?

Tanya24

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weird.

Female INFPs, totally. They often have this "innocent-yet-beautiful" appearance about them, at least the few I've known.

Wow... I hear that all the time... the innocent and beautiful thing! I'm an INFP...
 

ajblaise

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What they don't have in confidence they can make up for in deepness, which can be sexy.
 

jtanSis1

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That whole "why don't you have a girlfriend" thing is from girls thinking were too good to be true, or too good for them and they should let you find someone perfect which always bothers me since when is anyone perfect. Also, they still want the drama, which we try not to use because we want to be romantic.
 

Nillerz

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My woman be INFP and yeah she's hot as hell. *cool face*
 

mwv6r

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In my experience, INFPs male and female are mysterious, alluring, and sexy early on. But after getting to know them better, I find they're too much for me to handle in a romantic sense -- they're usually more sensitive and damaged than I am, and I am pretty sensitive and damaged! Wonderful as friends. Every best friend I've ever had has been an INFP. But in a relationship, I need someone more stable, grounded, and even-keeled than myself -- not less! I think thinking types are probably best for INFPs (and most NFs for that matter) because they can balance out our super-sensitivity.
 

Zeldias

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I'm not certain that I'm sexy, but I'm extremely charming. I think it's more my attitude of exterior gruffness and carelessness combined with my interior loving gentleness that attracts the wimminz, including my fiancee. Something about the duality is interesting, she's told me. "It's just so funny that you speak so coarsely but then you're always concerned with saving something or protecting and helping someone."

In conclusion: I am a Cadberry egg, and girls love both my hard, dark exterior and my bright, sweet insides.

And man, that was almost too perverse-sounding for me.
 

tibby

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INFp's can be so awkard and charming at the same time physically. It's like they are über-controlling their bodies, are kind of stiff yet very soft with their movements. And when you start talking, it's like listening to an angel talking, seriously :O I don't mean to sound corny. I find this gentleness and sensuelness very appealing.

What defines as "sexy" might vary from person to person but I think INFP's are sexy in their own, unique way.
 

jtanSis1

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I wish someone would tell me my voice sounds angelic or at least better feedback than what I'm already getting because I know it's true.
 

tibby

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I wish someone would tell me my voice sounds angelic or at least better feedback than what I'm already getting because I know it's true.

I've also noticed people don't say these things to people, some very few do, but. I find it very important somehow, cause I know how much it means. I'm sure people appreciate and value you a great deal, they just don't say it :blush: Why don't they say it? That I don't know. But it's there.

I think it's kind of self-absorded of me, but verbally assigned appreciation towards me can keep me going for long periods. :blush:
 
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I think it's kind of self-absorded of me, but verbally assigned appreciation towards me can keep me going for long periods.

Strange, this reads like something I would think or say.
 

quietmusician

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INFP guys, yes. Love the quiet, sensitive types. Had lots of those in my lit/philosophy classes in college.

Maybe you and I should talk..lol

So INFP and sexy? I don't know from personal experience. I've always been that 'cute, quiet, guy'. I really like ENFJ girls. I think that we would be more compatible than other types. But I'm open to anyone that appreciates my humor and sense of self.
 

jtanSis1

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I keep telling INFP's that we need ENFJ's and vice-versa but they don't believe me.
 
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Glycerine

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Most INFP are awesome, have charming characteristics and deeply care about people but a few go way overboard with trying to be noncomformist that it seems "fake".
 

placebo

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In my experience, INFPs male and female are mysterious, alluring, and sexy early on. But after getting to know them better, I find they're too much for me to handle in a romantic sense -- they're usually more sensitive and damaged than I am, and I am pretty sensitive and damaged! Wonderful as friends. Every best friend I've ever had has been an INFP. But in a relationship, I need someone more stable, grounded, and even-keeled than myself -- not less! I think thinking types are probably best for INFPs (and most NFs for that matter) because they can balance out our super-sensitivity.


Haha I think people have had that experience with me. I don't think I could handle being with another INFP like myself -- definitely need a more stable T.
 

Kristiana

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LOL, my brother is INFP, so no, I cannot say I think they are sexy :D

I do find healthy INFPs interesting and fun to be around, though.
 

sakuraba

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Ive known 3 INFPs. In a traditional sense, they are all more cute than sexy.

Personally I find all 3 of them are sexy as hell. And that has more to do with their personality rather than looks.
 
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