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[INFP] Are INFPs "sexy"?

GZA

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I don't think a type can be sexy. There are obviously sexy people of each type, and perhaps the mannerisms of the types would effect how people perceive them, but even then the mannerisms between people of the same type vary a lot in my experience.

but out of pure vanity, yes, INFP's have a monopoly on sexy :D
 

Bougal

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By far, I am most attracted to INFP males, but they do tend to be non-communicative which is bothersome. Other than that, they are spectacular.
 

runvardh

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By far, I am most attracted to INFP males, but they do tend to be non-communicative which is bothersome. Other than that, they are spectacular.

Some of us have found the value of working on this. Many who have, though, still need to know they won't be interrupted and be given space to talk in.
 

ajblaise

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I thought about it, and these are some of the reason why INFP's are sexy to me:

Highly intuitive women are sexy.
Something about them is so soft and warm and feminine, just waiting to be corrupted.
They have a certain sadness about them.
They are always on some kind of meaningful personal quest, this is attractive.
 

jtanSis1

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INFP's are more the dreamy-romantic type. More the emotions than the actions. I will sit during the night and watch the moon and stars and can be close to anyone.
 

heart

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INFP's are more the dreamy-romantic type. More the emotions than the actions. I will sit during the night and watch the moon and stars and can be close to anyone.

Well, there does come a point when I hope the person with me does more than stare at the moon and the stars. :D
 

jtanSis1

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Oh that is what I do when I'm just embracing the night. If someone was really with me I would embrace them instead, since they would be my lovely night sky.
 

Oleander

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We are not 'sexy', we are 'sexual' and 'sensual. And we might be with anybody we respect as a human being equal to ourselves. They just have too many socially-indiced hang-ups to feel emotionally free and without emotion what is sex worth?
 

jtanSis1

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If you want to know, INFP's are basically innocent, but are curious about others, so become other types to fit in. However, when secure, safe, and feel that we can be ourselves, we are romantics in the sense that we don't use romantic gestures, we are romantics embodied. We are romantics in that we will talk, think, and express romance in all we do. We have no basis in reality, and so can be free to believe in love as tangible and present. As for sexy, we are like princes and princesses in that sexiness is a given, just as everything else is for us. Think of an INFP as a prince or princess and you can't go wrong, since we don't take titles seriously, and are very humble about it. Our rich fantasy life makes others feel as if they are part of the fantasy, and if that's not sexy then what is. If you need something, we are there, and are curious to try anything the first time. Basically, we are sexy when we are confident enough to be ourselves, and who wouldn't want someone who's romantic all the time?
 

am_i_evil666

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god, i've met some INFP who were totally :drool: :drool: physically speaking, but whom i considered really annoying. so, psychologically speaking, i don't find INFPs sexy.
 

jtanSis1

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The annoying bit is probably them trying to help but not sure how to, or challenge others to think differently about things. It can be pretty annoying. I usually have to catch myself and tone it down.
 

Into It

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INFPs are forgiving and understanding; they will make the effort to keep a relationship solid. An INFP would probably make a good mate. 'Sexy' is probably not the best word because these are qualities that can go unseen, especially in a wallflower, and may not enter the picture when sexual attraction is considered.
 
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