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[INFP] Which mbti type do you get along most in real life?

Arctic Hysteria

an abyss of Nothingness
Joined
Jun 20, 2014
Messages
655
MBTI Type
IxFP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
Lots of ENFP. INFJ. INFP. INTP. ISFP. ESxJ. ISTP. I think INTJs and I can get along too, yet I am not friends with any INTJ.
 
Joined
Feb 2, 2014
Messages
234
MBTI Type
ENFP
Lately all my friends are, ISTPS, INTJS, or ENFPs as long with ISFPS and INFPS. I think it's because I work at a pizza place now, I corner out the people who don't talk and just do a good job...because I am absolutely the worlds worst pizza girl. I just make jokes and they teach me things...i enjoy it. But most of my friends at the moment are ISTPS...which I didn't see coming.
 

á´…eparted

passages
Joined
Jan 25, 2014
Messages
8,265
I do best with other FJ's, and I also do better with extroverts. By and large though the pattern is pretty weak.
 

Kullervo

Permabanned
Joined
May 15, 2014
Messages
3,298
MBTI Type
N/A
I feel like I could click well with any NJ, and INFPs/ENFPs are also easy enough. Introverts are easier for me to befriend than extroverts, because our perspective is a little more similar and an extrovert's energy can become a little intimidating/overwhelming after a while. xNTPs are the only iNuititves I have trouble warming to. INTPs in particular can infuriate me.

I seem to struggle with Sensors, especially SPs, and I'll be lazy and blame cognitive differences for that. They just can't understand me.
 

INFPtheQuietOne

New member
Joined
May 8, 2015
Messages
122
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp
EXFX, IXFX, INTX
I wouldn't be surprised as an INFP since we're really quiet.
 

Noon

New member
Joined
Jul 23, 2010
Messages
790
As far as I know right now, I think inf and sp, especially isfp (bts) and stp (ctc/in-charge), but with the latter it's a mixed bag depending on where I'm at because of my weird relationship with se. At the most imbalanced I've gone through spartan periods followed by counterreaction periods to get out of feeling trapped in my head followed by ultra downtime to recover from [what is for me] overstimulation, recycling if I don't avoid going spartan again. I like their humor and they keep me more healthy than without, though.

Most of the sps I've known have been head types (one heart type). I've only ever been semi-close with an 8w7 once, an estp, and I loved how grounded and generous and protective she was, but she was also constantly guarded and saw me as 'childlike'; that was both endearing and exasperating to her in turns - sometimes I got exhausted too at being pushed to be more [like an 8] because it was so unnatural for me. I think because vulnerability made her uncomfortable, she couldn't understand how I was comfortable that way and wanted to make me 'be strong'. But I liked her to the extent that I got to know her. No idea how it would've progressed had we known each other longer. She was so guarded that I didn't [get to].
 

laterlazer

good, hot, fresh, fly ~
Joined
Dec 22, 2014
Messages
501
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
592
Instinctual Variant
sp
I seem to have a butt load of ISTJ friends so defo them, also get along with INTJs, xNFPs and haven't met many NFJs but I surprisingly clicked straight away with an ENFJ I met this year. I think I get along quite decently with ISFJs too.

The others I either have barely come across or I generally don't get along with even if there are the odd few from each type I do get along with (e.g. I have one good ESTJ friend but can't stand most of the others I know)
 

Raspberry_rain

New member
Joined
Apr 28, 2015
Messages
84
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
I get along best with INxJ followed by xSxP types, other types I can certainly get along with as well, but those are the types I instantly click with.
 

FairyRabbit

New member
Joined
May 12, 2015
Messages
4
MBTI Type
XNFJ
Enneagram
4w3
I tend to get along better with the Fi types, or types that have their Fe in tertiary and inferior functions.
My best friends are ISFP and INFP, and I also get along really well with ENFPs.
As a very emotional individual, I could not stand people who are more suspicious and emotionally unstable than I am.

While healthy ESxJs are amazing, unhealthy ESxJ are so manipulative and scary. :shock:
 

Tinyclaws

New member
Joined
Feb 17, 2015
Messages
11
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
4
Instinctual Variant
sx
ENFJ, INTJ, ESFJ, ENTJ

mostly Js I guess.
Oh and one ESTP friend, but we had a rough start. :D
 

Dreamer

Potential is My Addiction
Joined
Jul 26, 2015
Messages
4,539
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
794
It's hard to say, I think I can find a way to get along fairly easily with most people. I do find it difficult to get along with...I assume the heavy Se types perhaps? Or basically, the people that don't have any room to budge when it comes to talks on spirituality and the mysticism of life. The super logical types of people that can't even humor my perspective for a second. Am I right on this? Are these kinds of people generally the heavy Se users?? Not sure...

Edit: Oh, just thought after I posted, but my best friends are both ISFJs and my brother and father are ENTJs and I appreciate both of them immensely and get along with them well. I can't say that these four people are necessarily a natural fit for the way I think and communicate, but I think for what I'm looking for typically, stability and a certain groundedness to their approach, these two types have done well for me to counteract my ENFP-ness.
 

Cellmold

Wake, See, Sing, Dance
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Mar 23, 2012
Messages
6,266
If there's a pattern it's sometimes Ti types.

But generally I don't get along with most people.
 

Luigi

New member
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Sep 10, 2015
Messages
1,310
MBTI Type
ISFJ
Enneagram
6w7
Instinctual Variant
sp/so
This is in no particular order, but I get along really well with these types: ESTP, ESFP, ESFJ, ENTP, ENTJ, INTJ, ENFJ. The rest were either bad experiences, or I have not had any experience with them.
 
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