pinkgraffiti
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- Mar 20, 2011
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- ENFP
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- sx/so
I am confused by my new boss. She seems so similar to me in some instances (e.g. always late for things, doing many things at the same time, losing objects, impulsive, vivacious, etc) but at the same time i have the impression we think in completely different ways - in fact, she has told me quite a few times that she can't understand my reasoning (that i jump from topic to topic - i guess Ne - but if you don't understand Ne, can you be an Ne user?!) and in reverse, i find her to be more direct in speech than me (for instance, i tend to speak in suggestions, she's more straight-forward) and i've noticed that although she cares extremely for my emotional wellbeing and that of other co-workers - she'll always not talk about herself. mind you, i don't think it's a matter of being a boss, because she can talk about her personal life for a long time..but she just doesn't seem to be as open/naive/sensitive as me. i dunno. so i get this feeling of her being like a 7w8 and an ENFJ at the same time.
comments?
(sorry, wall of text )
comments?
(sorry, wall of text )