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[ENFJ] INTP + ENFJ = ?

Concur_Withall

New member
Joined
Nov 19, 2013
Messages
59
MBTI Type
NFJ
Extroverted Feeling types should be naturally drawn to the Introverted Thinking types.

However, really FeNe should prefer the TiSi over the TiNi.
 

INTP!

New member
Joined
Apr 8, 2016
Messages
56
MBTI Type
INTP
Don't understand this dual pairing mythology yet. So far as I see it, it can only work during the more mature years when and if ENFJ and INTP are theoretically supposed to care about their inferior functions.

Yes, I can see that. When younger, there was more of a select group that I got along with. These were people who happened to fit well with me. But now, I have dealt with more people and have had time to analyze why we don't get a long, I can see that it is important to try to view yourself through the perspective of other types.

Like people who are feelers, I think about how I view things in a logical way, then think about how that can make someone feel. I tailor that to how I express myself. It's like if someone asks you how they look or your opinion on a sensitive subject related to them, I don't just say the first factual, logical thing that comes to mind, especially if it's something they can't easily change. If a friend asks if they are smart and I don't think of them as academic or knowledgeable, I don't say, "well, you don't know a lot about many things, so you are not very smart." I say, " You are really good with people and really funny. It takes a certain kind of intelligence to be that way, so you are smart." It's not lying, but putting a positive spin on things.
 

AphroditeGoneAwry

failure to thrive
Joined
Feb 20, 2009
Messages
5,585
MBTI Type
INfj
Enneagram
451
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Can't remember if I answered in this thread already. But I really dig INTPs males, as friends. The intp females I know or have known don't seem to work out so well. I'm not sure why that is.

Not sure romantically. I'm not really in a romantic phase right now.
 

Masokissed

Spoiled Brat 🍒
Joined
Apr 22, 2015
Messages
941
MBTI Type
ESFP
Enneagram
7w6
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
A crappy couple.
 
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