Dear INFJs,
I am an INFP and only God knows how much I appreciate you. While you are private and can blow hot and cold sometimes, I find your warmth, when you choose to show it, endearing. You are a sensitive soul, and while you are quiet, you have a depth that most others don't see. I love your insights. I have an INFJ mentor who is an academic in a local university. Whenever I speak to her, I am blown away by new insights. It feels like she has just forced me to reevaluate - in a gentle, inspiring, way of course - my worldview. She was there for me when I was having depression, and checked up on me occasionally. I find it endearing that she gets flattered yet embarrassed by my praises. And recently I met another INFJ. Also an academic, she encourages me to continue writing the opinion articles which I have been writing. They both see in me something special and it's really amazing to be seen by someone, especially when your SJ parents do not understand you.
If you are an INFJ, know that there are people who love you. I am sorry, though, that the world has been so harsh to you.
I am an INFP and only God knows how much I appreciate you. While you are private and can blow hot and cold sometimes, I find your warmth, when you choose to show it, endearing. You are a sensitive soul, and while you are quiet, you have a depth that most others don't see. I love your insights. I have an INFJ mentor who is an academic in a local university. Whenever I speak to her, I am blown away by new insights. It feels like she has just forced me to reevaluate - in a gentle, inspiring, way of course - my worldview. She was there for me when I was having depression, and checked up on me occasionally. I find it endearing that she gets flattered yet embarrassed by my praises. And recently I met another INFJ. Also an academic, she encourages me to continue writing the opinion articles which I have been writing. They both see in me something special and it's really amazing to be seen by someone, especially when your SJ parents do not understand you.
If you are an INFJ, know that there are people who love you. I am sorry, though, that the world has been so harsh to you.