Actually this has a similar effect on me, especially if the emotional manipulation attempts to play with vulnerability. It's one of the few things that can enrage me, especially if I see it happening to people I care about. I usually withdraw for fear that I will tear them to shreds, but then gain the sweet distance of pure apathy.
My own nuclear family was pretty inept with manipulation, but they were pretty vulnerable, so we met plenty of horrid people with tactics. Sometimes I can cut people slack, like I have a friend who was raped within an inch of her life and now has cancer. She is strongly religious and feels anger is wrong. Well, as a result she can be fairly passive aggressive, but i support that behavior because it is her healthiest option. I also grew up with a single mother and older sister, so I saw most all the emotional tactics attempted to control responses- ESPECIALLY the pity and guilt approach, oh and the dismissal and attacks on self-esteem. When I see that shit I want to vomit on the person, sucker punch them, and then requisition a spine and/or a set of balls for them. Their choice.
/rant
Hey, this is my new year's resolution. Yay