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Are we doomed to loathe each other?
I don't feel Fi/Ne and Ti/Se play nice.
I don't feel Fi/Ne and Ti/Se play nice.
I see the ISTP stereotype as being a little shallow, but fully appreciate the deep mental capacity that runs underneath the impulsive, adrenaline junkie exterior.
If there wasn't a consistency issue, I'd totally date an ISTP. Y'all are hot
Going back to my appreciation for your mental capacities, if life were a video game and I was pitted against each MBTI type as a final boss, you guys would be in the Top 4 somewhere. And it got split into a game with teams like kickball, you'd be one of my top choices. You're competent, get shit done, act independently yet can fit your own actions into the larger strategy, plus you're ruthless when it comes to winning. Not like us feelers at all. I see you guys like bouncers of the kickball team, playing nice until someone tries to steal home, then you shove the kickball through their faces and down their throats.
If I was playing against you guys on a team, knocking you out of the game through injury would be high on my list of priorities.
Does any of this answer your question?
I don't think we would have particular problems.
My dad's an ISTP and he and I connect over our silly sense of humour. We also are kinda laid-back, hands off types - you know, live and let live - which means our interactions are very relaxed with neither wishing to force an issue. I also like his calmness and how it defuses tension.
I'm not sure about how it would work in a romantic relationship but I think mutual respect can go a long way. I do acknowledge Ti and Fi can really clash at times but if both types are healthy, it can be overcome.
Are we doomed to loathe each other?
I don't feel Fi/Ne and Ti/Se play nice.
Kinda. According to this intertype relations chart these two types are in superego relations which are uncomfortable.Are we doomed to loathe each other?
I don't feel Fi/Ne and Ti/Se play nice.
Kinda. According to this intertype relations chart these two types are in superego relations which are uncomfortable.
I get along pretty well with INFPs. The ones I like, I like immediately. I appreciate their gentleness, good humor, laid back nature. I can almost immediately trust them as they have no pretense about them. Something I really appreciate in dealing with people.
The ones I don't like, that's immediate too. Too sensitive, do as i say not as i do approach to life, or preachy doesn't go over well. And they don't particularly like me either.
Consistency issue?
That's weird - I would say the exact same thing but about F types. To me it's more far consistent to act according to the circumstances according to a consistent rationale rather than acting in a Fi way that appears random/without a rationale to me (I'm sure there is one, it's just not obvious to outsiders as Fi tends to be hidden). I guess our Ti rationale can be hidden from you in the same way (but if you ask, we will usually be more than happy to explain!)It's an STP thing, as far as I know.
You act logically in the moment according to variables that we don't necessarily see as significant, which causes you (from our perspective) to be inconsistent. I like to figure people out so I can assess them as threats or friends or best friends or whatever. I like having a general gist of how people will react.
We never fought-we still dont ever fight. At worst, we would get a little snappy and the shell up and go to our separate corners.... I didn't invite him into my inner world, nor me into his, but we both gave one another freedom to pursue those things externally and didn't seek to control the other.
That being said most of them arent out to kill you you just have to respect their space.