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[INFJ] INFJ Hate Thread

Nadir

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Alright, as per protean's request. Here you go.

Bring it on. Don't fluff it out and keep saying how INFJs are eminently lovable and all that. (okay, aeon, you're excused) Please don't be pathetic in expressing your dislike, we will see through your cover up and obvious softening attempts, and don't care for how the rest of the forum would perceive you.

That should be enough fuel for the fire to keep going for awhile...
This is an experiment.
 

nightning

ish red no longer *sad*
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INFJs...

1) Are bastards that pretends to care about people when all they care about are their ideals
2) Manipulate people to satisfied their own desires
3) Are hypocrites on their moral high ground.
4) Assume they know what's best for you when they clearly have no idea
5) Always try to hush everything up and spoil the fun
 

Kiddo

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Damn INFJs! Always making judgments based on obviously insufficient information and then sticking to their decisions with a passionate single mindedness that defies all reasoning! Where do they get off being emotionally invested in their ideas? They need to be more objective in their analysis and less susceptible to empathy. Understanding human motivation and agendas plays very little role in the logical deduction of human nature.
 

heart

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The only down side to INFJ is their tendancy to worry over little unimportant details and need to bitch talk endlessly about it when stressed, especially when the person they live with has just woke up and has a headache.

Other than that, they are wonderful and should not change. :heart:
 

TK*

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INFJs suck because they constantly keep sticking their grubby little hands in everybody's business. Uninvited, to boot. And once they stick their hands in they don't feel the need to follow through on it...so it's like: "WTF why'd you even bother to begin with???!" But being a INFJ myself I know it's because we like to figure problems out and solve them but not take much action to execute the solution.

And yeah, speaking of terrible INFJs...Jesus and Mother Theresa...man, I HATE those guys! Haha!
 

heart

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INFJs suck because they constantly keep sticking their grubby little hands in everybody's business. Uninvited, to boot. And once they stick their hands in they don't feel the need to follow through on it...so it's like: "WTF why'd you even bother to begin with???!" But being a INFJ myself I know it's because we like to figure problems out and solve them but not take much action to execute the solution.

That's why that part of the INFJ is not really something worthy of too much hate. Just let them go on about how great their system of improvment for your life is and let it flow right out the other ear. Pretty soon they will get lost in their imaginations again and forget about it. No pressure to actually take up the system.

My husband has many wonderful systems that he has come up with for me to run my daily life and actually they would be pretty good, except I am too P to actually follow a system. So it is a great pity that he wants to help me so much in this way but I just cannot accept it. I would like to, but just can't. *sigh*

I don't see it as hate worthy though, just one of those things that we don't see eye to eye on and as much my thingg as his.

It is just that darned ranting when stressed that gets me...
 

redacted

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The only down side to INFJ is their tendancy to worry over little unimportant details and need to bitch talk endlessly about it when stressed, especially when the person they live with has just woke up and has a headache.

Other than that, they are wonderful and should not change. :heart:

guilty...
 

phoenix13

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Alright, as per protean's request. Here you go.

Bring it on. Don't fluff it out and keep saying how INFJs are eminently lovable and all that. (okay, aeon, you're excused) Please don't be pathetic in expressing your dislike, we will see through your cover up and obvious softening attempts, and don't care for how the rest of the forum would perceive you.

That should be enough fuel for the fire to keep going for awhile...
This is an experiment.

Other than that, they are wonderful and should not change. :heart:

:doh: Wow, you just can't help yourselves... Maybe this should go in the INFP thread.
 

Hexis

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Me and one of my best friends both dated one, female INFJ's are the most insanely annoying stupid *****s i have ever met! I will never in my life date one again and if i have to socialise with one due to circumstances i will make it perfectly clear that I dont want to hear about their "patheticly miserable life". STFU OR DIE!

Hope that was unfluffy enough.
 
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ByMySword

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I hate INFJs. They are so perfect, it makes me sick. I mean, they are so versatile in their knowledge of things and can always present themselves like they know exactly who they are, even though some don't. Its what one sees on the outside that really impacts first impressions, anyway, so what does the other bullshit matter?

What really pisses me off is how they can be like a tank emotionally, and yet still not be a robot.

God, I wish they would all die. I'm so sick of their causes that actually give their life meaning while everyone else sits around and plays with their dicks. But to do that, we'd have to get past the most awesome INFJ of all.....ByMySword. Man, that guy looks at you and you feel Death's icy grip upon you. He's like an INTJ with moral character. True story.

Basically, a cold-blooded killer with a cause who can find justification in all the lives he takes.

So as much as I hate INFJs, I don't want to get on their bad side.

It would be regretted. :devil:
 

Totenkindly

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And yeah, speaking of terrible INFJs...Jesus and Mother Theresa...man, I HATE those guys! Haha!

Mother Teresa was clearly an ISFJ.
(But they suck too.)

What I hate about INFJs?
  • They wall off part of themselves and often don't let you in, even if you're trustworthy and know you wouldn't hurt them.
  • If you hurt them too many times, you might as well slit your own throat -- you probably won't be forgiven.
  • Arguing with them once they've made up their minds about something is pointless, all you can do is get out of the way.
  • They can take things very very personally -- "cold-hearted bastard" and "ice queen" are probably apt descriptions if you make them mad, again you might as well just kill yourself now before they get their hands on you and enjoy watching you die.
  • Ambiguity can make them very unhappy.
  • Sometimes they take things too seriously that they know were meant in jest, but since it's serious to them, well, that's how they approach it.

:dry: Now I'm starting to feel unbalanced, only being allowed to give half of my assessment (cuz there's lots of good there too). Sigh.
 

Hexis

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What I hate about INFJs?

They wall off part of themselves and often don't let you in, even if you're trustworthy and know you wouldn't hurt them.


This was my biggest problem with the one i dated, I even showed her MBTI tests and after she was able to read about herself she still wouldnt open up. Its clearly states in several definitions of INFJ's that their biggest fault is the "shell" that they form around themselves and how all it will do is hold them back. She liked MBTI and thought it made perfect sense and clearly depicted her but even then she refused to open up to me, and as an ENFP in an intimate relationship this drove me almost insane and caused me to break up with her.
 

Atomic Fiend

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...But to do that, we'd have to get past the most awesome INFJ of all.....ByMySword. Man, that guy looks at you and you feel Death's icy grip upon you. He's like an INTJ with moral character. True story.

We're too modest for our own goods.


...What?

You were all thinking it.
 

Griffi97

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INFJ's are absolutely never wrong. Don't even try to tell them anything because they will not listen to you.

Piss an INFJ off enough, and they will slam the door on you. You will never hear from them again, and you won't even see it coming.

INFJ's totally freak out when their plans go awry, even if the change seems insignificant to everyone else.

Or maybe that's just me.:smile:
 

Totenkindly

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We're too modest for our own goods.
...What?
You were all thinking it.

Oh yeah, I forgot to add the "full of bullsh*t" thing to my list, sorry 'bout that.



.... giggle. :smile:


This was my biggest problem with the one i dated, I even showed her MBTI tests and after she was able to read about herself she still wouldnt open up. Its clearly states in several definitions of INFJ's that their biggest fault is the "shell" that they form around themselves and how all it will do is hold them back. She liked MBTI and thought it made perfect sense and clearly depicted her but even then she refused to open up to me, and as an ENFP in an intimate relationship this drove me almost insane and caused me to break up with her.

Honestly, out of all the things i mentioned, this is probably the one that hurts me most. The other stuff, I can begrudgingly admire (especially if it's not directed at me).
 
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