2XtremeENFP
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- Jul 23, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 3w4
Man, having Fi can be hard sometimes. It can cause me to blurt out things I wanted to keep inside. It can make me speak words that I would have rather chose carefully. Sometimes, it is understanding and can show compassion, and other times, it expects more of people. It wants to see the idealistic version of what it thinks people should be.
Why do some situations allow me to show love and support even if people do things that make me cringe because my whole being disagrees with it?
Why do some situations cause a burning in my stomach until I blurt out what they are doing is wrong, wrong, wrong and only harming to themselves and others?
Why can I be understanding of people yet demand that they do things a certain way?
I am so frustrated and annoyed by myself for who I am/become when I do these things.
EDIT: It's like, I feel like people's choices affect me, even when it has nothing to do with me. It's like I feel like the world is around me, and I want to change it. I want to improve it. I take responsibility for people's feelings and I want the best for them, when frankly, it's non of my business... but I CAN'T LET GO. It's like my soul takes it personal, like I'm doing something wrong as a friend if they do these things, like I have no impact...
Why do some situations allow me to show love and support even if people do things that make me cringe because my whole being disagrees with it?
Why do some situations cause a burning in my stomach until I blurt out what they are doing is wrong, wrong, wrong and only harming to themselves and others?
Why can I be understanding of people yet demand that they do things a certain way?
I am so frustrated and annoyed by myself for who I am/become when I do these things.
EDIT: It's like, I feel like people's choices affect me, even when it has nothing to do with me. It's like I feel like the world is around me, and I want to change it. I want to improve it. I take responsibility for people's feelings and I want the best for them, when frankly, it's non of my business... but I CAN'T LET GO. It's like my soul takes it personal, like I'm doing something wrong as a friend if they do these things, like I have no impact...