WhimsyGirl
New member
- Joined
- Dec 4, 2011
- Messages
- 64
- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 3w4
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
in friendships. not sure if this is a common NF prob or a common everyone prob cuz my friends don't seem to have this, but anytime a person wants to talk to me, ill drop everything and talk. not like i necessarily seek it out (sometimes i do, but then im wayyy carefuller), but like telling me their whole lives and then ill empathize (cuz that's wat u shud do, and wat i want to do, esp if it's like something deep and more secret and all that), but then, theyll get weirded out by their own conversation, like wat they themselves say. and ill try to be supportive, but is this a problem that anyone else has? and how can u establish boundaries w/o 1. hurting the other person, cuz i'd know if s/o were trying to establish boundaries w/ me and i'd feel super bad, or 2. i WANT to connect with people. i want them to rely on me, to trust me, to be friends with me. im not AT ALL trying to push people away. in the slightest. any tips to making boundaries with people and keeping ones own sanity w/o pushing people away or hurting them? thanks loads in advance!!