[MBTI General] How does an FJ "grow" or "change"?

[Glycerine]

I wasn't trying to discount what was being said but I have seen people of various types do this (including Fi doms and Fe doms).....blaming other people for their problems because they just can't possibly have done anything wrong. People love to justify their actions and if they don't want to face the music, they find a scapegoat.... there were four F doms in my house growing up.... yikes. It's akin to the Fi perspective of "I couldn't possibly have done anything bad because I have the highest/best morals so therefore, I have done nothing wrong."

 

[Glycerine]

Here's my version:
Be more upfront on what you want/need
Don't be so concerned about others think
Don't be so PC and idealistic
People aren't as worried about things as you might think
Don't go into the martyr/ victim mode
Don't treat everyone like you're their mother hen
Don't impose your values on others unless need be
It's ok, not everything is going to be the worst case scenario
No need to emotionally explode when things go wrong
Relax
Read up on things before spouting your strong values
It's ok if someone's "weird"

Just some things related to me and other FJs I have known (not everything listed is about me).

 

[Sparrow]

Good list [MENTION=5109]Glycerine[/MENTION]! Guess who emotionally exploded today!!!!? lol

ME.