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[ENFJ] ISFP males in the eyes of an ENFJ females

floral87

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Hi everyone!

I am very new to this thread. This is my first day here. Anyway, my questions are related to ISFP *males* basically.
Sorry, typo: ISFP males in the eyes of ENFJ females :-

I would like to know how ISFP men approach love.

* Do ISFPs fall in love quickly?
* Do ISFps fantasize/daydream a lot about their love interest?
* Do ISFPs get over love quickly?
* Are ISFPs slow to fall in love?
* Are ISFPs are slow to get over love?
* Do ISFPs look for greener grasses elsewhere?
* Once committed, are ISFPs prone to cheat?

etc. Thank so much for your time. I am an ENFJ female, if that helps. :)
 

Kapla5053

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I can't believe it took so long for an ISFP male to respond. I'll still give it a shot

It very much depends on which stage of life the guy is in. I'm a 26 year old ISFP and I would say that I have been through quite a lot.
I've read that ISFP men are generally more sensitive and hurt ISFP's don't trust well after being hurt.

I'll just talk about myself on these:
* Do ISFPs fall in love quickly?
- Yes, but depending on the girl. But you can be sure that if he loves you, he would grasp any opportunity to spend time with you, not bothering what activity
* Do ISFps fantasize/daydream a lot about their love interest?
- Yes,
* Do ISFPs get over love quickly?
- Surprisingly yes. ISFP very much live in the "now" and if he's able to put things in the past, he'll get over it quickly.
* Are ISFPs slow to fall in love?
- If they have been hurt badly
* Are ISFPs are slow to get over love?
- I don't think so
* Do ISFPs look for greener grasses elsewhere?
- I never once thought about being with another girl while i was in a serious relationship.
* Once committed, are ISFPs prone to cheat?
- ISFP are known to have very internalized set of principles. As long as he believes cheating is wrong, it is highly unlikely to happen

I also think ISFP are very sensitive to their efforts not being reciprocated, so you might want to be careful about that.

Anyway, I would like to know the ENFJ female answers to those questions too :)
 

Nausicaa

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From my experience with an ISFP male, I'd say those answers are spot on! As for an ENFJ female's answers, I hope I can provide some accurately.

* Do ENFJs fall in love quickly?
Depends on the person of interest. I would say we could be quick to become infatuated but tend to prefer getting to know the person better before deciding it's love.

* Do ENFJs fantasize/daydream a lot about their love interest?
Yes, constantly.

* Do ENFJs get over love quickly?
It usually takes a good catharsis before ENFJs can get over someone. I would say it takes a long time to get over a longer relationship but easy to move on from a brief one.

* Are ENFJs slow to fall in love?
Again, depends on the person of interest.

* Are ENFJs are slow to get over love?
Depends on the duration and amount of commitment of the relationship.

* Do ENFJs look for greener grasses elsewhere?
No, we rather tend to be consumed with the person of interest. In a different sense, we do like to keep tabs on how the relationship is going and always are eager to find ways to improve it.

* Once committed, are ENFJs prone to cheat?
No, we are very loyal to our loved ones.

Hope this helps!~
 
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