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Shit. I wanted the cake.
Thank you for your input and advice. I really, really want it and think about it throughout the day.
I've been told frequently that I do that.it seems like youre overanalyzing the situation and creating problems that havent actually embodied themself in some way.
I firmly don't want to push my beliefs on him. I think both of us would be happy if we saw things the same way--there'd be a sense of camaraderie, but I'm fiercely opposed to pressuring someone into Christianity. It doesn't acknowledge their natural freedom of choice, and forced allegiance is bogus and an outward deal only.from my experience, when it comes to two people of different beliefs getting along, the delimiting factor is often the more religious of the two... teaching others what they consider to be the truth is a foundation element of many religions, while the same isnt true of atheism or agnosticism (past simply wanting to convince others that youre right)
You're probably right there--at least for now. He's repeatedly said it isn't problematic for him. Realistically, that could easily change.you need to consider a few things... first off, if difference in beliefs is going to ever be an issue, it is probably going to be due to you (for the above reasons)
I'm worried that if we see the world in two different ways, it WILL spill over into how we act and approach circumstances in the future, and I'm afraid we could break up over that. I'm pretty sure he'd hold on to his convictions about the metaphysical as strongly as I would. He has a belief--that there is no God. That has to affect his life.secondly, you should consider how important it really is to have the same beliefs as someone. in my opinion, allowing one's interpretations of the metaphysical to affect the physical is moronic. it's one thing to conclude something where you really cant, its entirely worse to actually let that affect how you act in the real, tangible world. that is just my viewpoint on it... i really do think it is stupid to not do something that makes you happy due to considerations of that which can have no tangible consequence.
past that, youre out of luck. you cant have your cake and eat it too.
Shit. I wanted the cake.
Thank you for your input and advice. I really, really want it and think about it throughout the day.