[MBTI General] infj + esfj: help?

[kefirah]

hello, ladies and gentlemen. i'm new here. very new. a newly hatched forum member, if you will. and i've a question for the more "type.informed" than i...

my fiance is an esfj. i am an infj. i would like guidance on how to communicate and open dialogue. we don't have TROUBLES with that, mind you. i just want to be my best ME for him, if that makes any sense.

all input appreciated [but for the trolling sort].

 

[Elfboy]

I have known a number of couples in IXFJ/EXFJ relationships and I've never once even heard of them having a problem

 

[Lily flower]

It's going to be great! Don't worry!

Even after years of marriage, my husband and I occasionally have a miscommunication, but when we sense we are getting mad, we just ask each other, "Is that what you were saying?" Often, it is just a misunderstanding. If you want to communicate and you both can talk rationally, you will be fine.