[NF] NFs; what do you find attractive?

[Failcakes]

After my last failed relationship and the unresponded love I gave to some person I have come to the conclusion, that I need someone who is as passionate as me at loving. I'm not an attention whore, but I'll need lots of attention from my partner. I want to feel valued by them. By this I don't mean I want to cling to them and go everywhere they go, I just want to at least hear one loving word a day, and just want to feel threatened special by my special someone. Because in a relationship I want to give them all my best too. <3 Secondly I really am attracted by people who are kind and understanding to other people, I can tolerate a somewhat mean partner, but it will annoy me after a time I guess. And what is also very important, is, as many people stated before me already, the character and the interests of a person! I can only come close to someone when I feel there is somewhat of a "connection" between us. Looks are secondary but do play a role when I went through the stage of feeling connected to someone. :c Although I think if I am passionate in love, I tend to forget how someone looks and just will love them for who they are.

 

[SingSmileShine]

Hum. Well, I find a lot of things good, but the only necessary things are a sense of humor, a caring personaliy, and natural chemistry. Of course, good looks and intelligence don't hurt. But they have to be a genuinely good person. And I think the not-cheating-on-me part is implied.

 

[kyli_ryan]

I find different aspects of a personality attractive. Kindness is a must, along with humility and a certain realistic approach to life situations. I appreciate whenever I'm with someone who can bring me back from my idealistic point of view and incorporate some elements of reality into it. I definitely don't want someone who will bring me down, or tell me I can't do the impossible... just someone who will give me realistic options to achieve seemingly idealistic goals

 

[Anew Leaf]

nice shoulders, pretty (blue/green) eyes, and a working knowledge of astrophysics, astronomy, physics, chemistry, simpsons quotes, and how to hog tie a hog and I'm down with making some babies under the moonlight in a vat of lime jello while some one legged incest spawn plays the banjo in the woods behind us.

 

[kyli_ryan]

I'm down with making some babies under the moonlight in a vat of lime jello while some one legged incest spawn plays the banjo in the woods behind us.

OooOh. I change my answer. This sounds more romantic

 

[alisonrach]

Most attractive thing... effortless relaxation and honesty.
We can spot lies a mile away.. especially INFs and the chase is the best part. Without a chase NFs won't give you a second glance. I could stay in the "I'm not sure if he likes me" phase with a guy for months as long as there is progress, a snails pace will catch me hook, line and sinker.

 

[alisonrach]

I find different aspects of a personality attractive. Kindness is a must, along with humility and a certain realistic approach to life situations. I appreciate whenever I'm with someone who can bring me back from my idealistic point of view and incorporate some elements of reality into it. I definitely don't want someone who will bring me down, or tell me I can't do the impossible... just someone who will give me realistic options to achieve seemingly idealistic goals

You said it perfectly

 

[Domino]

nice shoulders, pretty (blue/green) eyes, and a working knowledge of astrophysics, astronomy, physics, chemistry, simpsons quotes, and how to hog tie a hog and I'm down with making some babies under the moonlight in a vat of lime jello while some one legged incest spawn plays the banjo in the woods behind us.

This should also apply to the "High Five Yourself" thread.