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[MBTI General] Attraction versus connection

tortoise

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Aug 25, 2010
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161
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ENFP
This one is slightly doing my head in right now.

The people I am most able to connect with (male or female) are of similar type to me, or at least NFP.

However, the women I am most attracted to are not. They've all been NFJ, and I have a history of issues with trying to relate to these NFJ women.

It's not about physical beauty -- I know some very beautiful NFP women who I find very attractive -- but there's something about the energy field of NFJ women that REALLY lights my fire, even though quite often they're not as physically attractive.

This is frustrating because I want the fire-lighting attraction AND the NFP connection in the same package.

Argh!
 

ExAstrisSpes

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Aug 11, 2010
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ENFJ
Just succumb to the ENFJ snugglefest and everything will be all right. :p
 

ExAstrisSpes

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Aug 11, 2010
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ENFJ
:hug:

I was wondering how long it would take for someone to figure that out!
 

ilovelurking

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Aug 10, 2009
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156
MBTI Type
INFJ
I am curious...

In what way is connection easier for you with NFPs when compared to NFJs?

My S.O. is ENFP, by the way. :)
 

mochajava

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Jul 28, 2010
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INFJ
Are we saying NFJ women aren't as beautiful as NFP women...? ;)
 
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