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[MBTI General] wanting more extroverted friends.

Rachelinpa

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i need you!!!!!!! where are you?

i want to go out every day once i'm released from my cage (work), but midweek people are not up for this... whyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!

i don't even have to do much!! just sit around and interact a bit.

my dream is to meet someone (awesome) who wants to hang out more than i do.
 

Sparrow

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Lets paint the town red then! :) If your in Seattle, which I doubt :(.
 

skylights

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lol i feel you!!

i always want to do stuff after work and people are all nurrr tirrrred

and i'm always like well yeah me too tired of WORK :tongue10:
 

Rachelinpa

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Lets paint the town red then! :) If your in Seattle, which I doubt :(.

i would love to! but ugggghhh.... i'm in philly.

if i wasn't so skint, i'd be on a plane though! i love NEW!!!!!!! never been to seattle. rainy!
 

Neo.bahamut.r

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lol i feel you!!

i always want to do stuff after work and people are all nurrr tirrrred

and i'm always like well yeah me too tired of WORK :tongue10:

Haha, I know exactly what that's like. Everyone's all working for the weekend whereas I'm out here trying to live Carpe Diem, every day's the weekend! :newwink:

If anyone wants to do anything in DC, my answer is always, enthusiastically, YES :)
 

boondocked

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Come to NY :hifive:

Everybody's an extraextravert here!
 
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I'm not trying to be a wiseass, but if you want to go out every night, how are you going to find someone that wants to go out more than you do?
 

Antimony

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One could want to go out every morning, evening AND night.

Nighttime isn't the only time for going out.

Also, they could be more enthusiastic about going out, or want to more.
 

Rachelinpa

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One could want to go out every morning, evening AND night.

Nighttime isn't the only time for going out.

Also, they could be more enthusiastic about going out, or want to more.

yes! exactly!!! and, it's also an issue of wanting to communicate... non-stop... where are all the people wanting to talk!!?!?!

party! party! party!
 

Antimony

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Hahaha, I am always up for talking and doing things...even at 5 o'clock in the morning. Can you top that? HUH? CAN YA??!??!?!?!?!?!!


:party: :party: :party:
 

Trentham

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and, it's also an issue of wanting to communicate... non-stop... where are all the people wanting to talk!!?!?!

party! party! party!

I'm starting to get a headache just from reading this post...:tongue:

I have the opposite problem - my friends are always trying to chat me up and/or get me out of the house. Wanting more introverted friends!
 

Antimony

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Come join the dark side of the ENxPs.
 

Rachelinpa

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I'm starting to get a headache just from reading this post...:tongue:

I have the opposite problem - my friends are always trying to chat me up and/or get me out of the house. Wanting more introverted friends!

haaaaaaaaahahaha. i am one of those friends!

drinks at lunch! wooooooooooooo!
 

Vamp

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I was in exactly this same boat 2 years ago. None of my friends ever wanted to party and I started to notice it. So I started going to hang out by myself and kept an eye out for fun, bouncy excitable people.
 

Froody Blue Gem

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I do have some extroverted friends. Extroverts can be pretty fun, especially ENxPs, but because introversion is my strongest preference, there is some area of disconnect. I would say we can learn things from each other and sometimes we have great conversation.

To those who are extreme Es, they need to go out and socialize to be energized but when I'm feeling drained or need my alone time which is a lot of the time, sometimes this doesn't compute to them. Or when they constantly need to talk on the phone because they need someone to talk them to feel that need during their spare time while in my spare time, I need time away from that.
 
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