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[ENFP] Upset ENFPs: Handle With Care

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jesus christ has whoever's saying this even BEEN to russia? :shock:
First, do not use our Lord's name like that. Second, yes I've been to Russia and have interacted with Russians. And part of my family is Russian.
 

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First, do not use our Lord's name like that. Second, yes I've been to Russia and have interacted with Russians. And part of my family is Russian.
Wasn't skylights in agreement with you?
 

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Upset ENFP Standard Operating Procedure

Invisible Jim deserves some kind of prize for his posts in this thread.

:D

Well the classic ENFP explosion management strategy has 3 stages.

Stage 1: Listen to the anger, say as little as possible.

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Stage 2: Hug it out

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Stage 3: Fun

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ubee0173

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Well the classic ENFP explosion management strategy has 3 stages.

Stage 1: Listen to the anger, say as little as possible.

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Stage 2: Hug it out

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Stage 3: Fun

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i need to put that on a shirt so everyone that i piss off or get pissed off at knows how to deal properly!
 

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I'm convinced hugs & cuddles can make almost anything better.
 

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First, do not use our Lord's name like that. Second, yes I've been to Russia and have interacted with Russians. And part of my family is Russian.

edit - your lord, not mine. i should amend this. i figure we probably both believe in the same god, ultimately. but those are your religion's rules, and i do not feel any personal obligation to follow them.

but i won't do it if it offends you. there wasn't any disrespect of any god intended.

okay though. i still find it weird from my experiences there. but like i said, i've only been in a small bit. and russia is enormous.

@InvisibleJim: accurate :hifive:
 

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Jim's got the right idea! :nice:

Just don't skip step 1 and 2 and jump to 3 or you *will* be risking your equipment being out of order for several days, just saying :coffee:
 

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ENFPs are just fine. Narcissists are not.

Type is a big cop out I've seen way too many times in this thread.

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. Respectable people want to minimize the damage their weaknesses cause. In that sense, Wonka didn't seem respectable, and I'm glad he's gone.
 

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ENFPs are just fine. Narcissists are not.

Type is a big cop out I've seen way too many times in this thread.

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. Respectable people want to minimize the damage their weaknesses cause. In that sense, Wonka didn't seem respectable, and I'm glad he's gone.

Well, especially considering this is a large, public forum. Taking every perceived wrong as a personal insult will get you nowhere.
 

InvisibleJim

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ENFPs are just fine. Narcissists are not.

Type is a big cop out I've seen way too many times in this thread.

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. Respectable people want to minimize the damage their weaknesses cause. In that sense, Wonka didn't seem respectable, and I'm glad he's gone.

Well, especially considering this is a large, public forum. Taking every perceived wrong as a personal insult will get you nowhere.

Posthumously deriding someone because you have failed to understand their perspective is hideously poor form. How embarrassing for you both.
 

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Posthumously deriding someone because you have a failure in understanding their perspective is hideously poor form. How embarrassing for you both.

That was not my intent. I actually quite liked the guy, based on the limited interactions I had with him. But posting an entire thread about how nobody understands you seems less effective than just calling out the individuals who committed the wrong-doing.
 

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Can we give Wonka a break already?
 

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***starts ice skating on the wooden floor with socks***

:shrug:

People are people.

***plays some loud music***


Arrrrrr grrrrr aaaaaaaarrrr rrrrrrrrrrraaaaaaaaa

***skates away***

And yeah, don't bitch about people when they can't defend themselves. That blows.
 

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for real! yeah... i missed most of the posts in this thread but i like wonka so sthu! :D
 

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Again, can't speak for Evan, but I wasn't putting him down. It's not an attack against the individual, just the method.
 

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Ok well, apparently we're done with the topic of this thread, so maybe it's time to lock it up.
 

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O crap I missed most of this discussion. Good luck Wonka :(
 

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Well, especially considering this is a large, public forum. Taking every perceived wrong as a personal insult will get you nowhere.

I only took the personal insults as personal insults. I really doubt you have the magical ability to read my mind, especially since you don't even know where I am.

Posthumously deriding someone because you have failed to understand their perspective is hideously poor form. How embarrassing for you both.

So he can start a discussion, not listen, then storm out. And if someone says their opinion of what he did, they're fucked up?

How is what you're doing any better? Sure, the rhetoric sounds all official or whatever, but that doesn't mean you're any less full of it.
 
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