[ENFP] ENFPs- hiding part of yourself.

[skylights]

i thought ENFPs didn't have parts of themselves that don't want to put out.

 

[Vamp]

Hooker?

I would like to be. Or at least kept and/or in an arrangement. Key phrase being "would like to be" not "am" or "could be".

i thought ENFPs didn't have parts of themselves that don't want to put out.

Yeah but you don't want to be the weird smelly kid, do you?

Or in my case, the dirty whore.

 

[You]

I would like to be. Or at least kept and/or in an arrangement. Key phrase being "would like to be" not "am" or "could be".

We'll think about it.

 

[Vamp]

We'll think about it.

Wait. What?.....

Pleaaaaaaaaaaase!

 

[skylights]

Yeah but you don't want to be the weird smelly kid, do you?

Or in my case, the dirty whore.

i really hope i've never been the weird smelly kid. weird, sure, but smelly is another story entirely.

(sidenote) hey look, a derailed ENFP thread hahahah

 

[Vamp]

i really hope i've never been the weird smelly kid. weird, sure, but smelly is another story entirely.

(sidenote) hey look, a derailed ENFP thread hahahah

Oh, lol. I didn't even notice I was doing that. Um. ..

Edit to add what I was supposed to say as well: When you're "weird" other kids tend to assume you smell whether you actually do or not. Cause kids are stupid.

 

[You]

Wait. What?.....

Pleaaaaaaaaaaase!

Wait. What do you want me to

Pleaaaaaaaaaaase?

 

[Chloe]

Edit to add what I was supposed to say as well: When you're "weird" other kids tend to assume you smell whether you actually do or not. Cause kids are stupid.

boy... i am always shocked by american [high] school stories.

 

[Vamp]

Wait. What do you want me to

Pleaaaaaaaaaaase?

Eh, thought you were offering.

boy... i am always shocked by american [high] school stories.

Wait. This is new to me. Where you're from it's not as pointlessly mean and silly?

 

[You]

Eh, thought you were offering.

I am.

 

[Vamp]

I am.

........really? I want an allowance.

 

[ilovelurking]

*lol* Let's put this thread back on track...

I find the hidden sides of ENFPs very endearing.

 

[Vamp]

....oh dammit! Sorry, sorry.

To address the original post: I've been doing nothing but hiding since I noticed I was "odd". I focus to much on tailoring myself to fit into whatever box any given group is sitting in. BUT lately, on my own, I'm like "pfft. life's too short. if I am myself I'll attract those I want to be around.". So yeah. Self acceptance/actualization is crazy like that.

Also, forgot to add, awhile ago on this site I saw "loose cannon-ism" listed on an ENFP traits list. I have to hide that, it's too disruptive. Also, teh emo darkness must remain hidden. As does the sternness.

 

[Chloe]

Wait. This is new to me. Where you're from it's not as pointlessly mean and silly?

Not that, but in our schools there is A LOT less bullying than in US. Especially in HS where almost nobody gets bullied. US HS stories seem like horror stories. It'd be interesting to figure why is it so different.

for example, we didnt have cool kids in school AT ALL.

 

[Vamp]

Not that, but in our schools there is A LOT less bullying than in US. Especially in HS where almost nobody gets bullied. US HS stories seem like horror stories. It'd be interesting to figure why is it so different.

for example, we didnt have cool kids in school AT ALL.

That's crazy.
Sounds downright Utopian compared to the craziness.

 

[tortoise]

Not that, but in our schools there is A LOT less bullying than in US. Especially in HS where almost nobody gets bullied. US HS stories seem like horror stories. It'd be interesting to figure why is it so different.

for example, we didnt have cool kids in school AT ALL.

Which country are you in?

 

[skylights]

where i am - southern US - high school is fine, but middle school sucks ass.

that's where kids are unnecessarily cruel and veryyy cliquish.

 

[skylights]

where i am - southern US - high school is fine, but middle school sucks ass.

that's where kids are unnecessarily cruel and veryyy cliquish. i actually played on both sides of the equation - went from being relatively unpopular (not geek, just unpopular) to being a stuck up popular kid and back - and it sucks no matter where you are.

 

[Vamp]

I'm in the south, too. But I'm black so. ...all grade levels suck if you're not regulation "regular".

 

[animenagai]

Not that, but in our schools there is A LOT less bullying than in US. Especially in HS where almost nobody gets bullied. US HS stories seem like horror stories. It'd be interesting to figure why is it so different.

for example, we didnt have cool kids in school AT ALL.

Where are you from Petra?