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[NF] Cheating and Love: two NFs

mochajava

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Joined
Jul 28, 2010
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475
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INFJ
Nothing! Well, videochat? But Kyuuei is right. I think half of it is just NOT knowing what's going on. If I was on the end of being emotionally (or otherwise) cheated on, I'd be millions of times more okay with it if I knew everything that was happening as it was happening. That being said, I may or may not forgive depending on the specifics, but knowing is so important.
 

Lauren

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Dec 7, 2008
Messages
255
MBTI Type
INFP
I think he had his cake and ate it too.

He probably was unfaithful to the gf by talking to you.

It was emotional infidelity.

If I was dating someone long distance and then found out they were having some kind of intense relationship with someone who clearly was attracted to them, even infatuated, I would be displeased. Both because I would feel disrespected and because I would not like how that reflects on my SO's character. It is an act of weakness and selfishness at best (which can be rectified) and at worst a lack of understanding of boundaries (red flag) if you pursue the kind of situation that guy had with you while you have an SO.

To the bolded part: I agree.
 
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