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[NF] NFs - When are you unapologetic?

Vamp

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Jul 2, 2010
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ENFP
Sometimes, I get tired of having the explain myself and sometimes I figure no one needs to know.
 

Froody Blue Gem

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Dec 19, 2018
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sp/so
I'm unapologetic when I perceive I'm in the right or did nothing wrong and someone acuses me of wrong. The majority of the time, I overkill the word sorry but there are times when I draw a line.

Usually, I will consider what mistake I made, but there are some people who are all about the tiniest details. I may say "sorry" to smooth over a situation while fuming inside that they don't deserve an apology. There's no way to win with some people. Also, when people misinterpret what I say and blow the situation out of proportion. I am also unapologetic if I don't particularly like the person and I perceive that they have done worse to me, and what I am doing is justified.

Or there are times when it honestly goes over my head what I did wrong, so it's more out of ignorance than stubbornness in these special cases.
 
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Falsely accuse me of something, question my motives, tell me how I’m feeling. That last one always produces interesting results.
 

LenaOnTheMoon

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Aug 29, 2023
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Ever since I got accused by a group of girls for doing the right thing and failed in trying to regain their approval, I no longer want to apologize, ever, for something I’ve NEVER done.

But on most occasions, I would give in and compromise, not wanting to upset other people. Usually, I let them tell me what to do and listen to their opinions. However, if the matter has to do with moral principles and core values, I would stand up for myself and all those who matters, like when these girls attacked me on cyberspace and gossiped about me in real life.

I have an advice for everyone who has trouble defending their personal rights: Never apologize for what you didn’t do wrong.
 
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