Amargith
Hotel California
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- Nov 5, 2008
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Guys, let's not get into a bitchfight, shall we?
Milky: ever thought that different perspectives give that impression? Do a bit of research on this forum, and you'll find more than people venting in a thread things. Just becoz people need to vent about something that irks them about someone else, doesn't mean that per definition that someone else is in fact fake, or is deliberately being fake. It actually means they have a different way of being, one you're not even trying to understand. That makes you intolerant or closeminded, which imo is just as bad. I too have had issues with Fe-users *seeming* fake, but once you understand what their motivation is...(and I thank Domino for showing me
), you actually understand how real they are.
As for the Fe-users: don't let this person bait you into making ad hominem attacks. I think milky might even enjoy getting you banned. For that matter, ganging up on someone, even when they deserve it is...well,ime, rarely productive. Usually those that vent like this about others are just doing that...venting. Others get stuck in that frustration and start taking it for a fact, as they don't understand how the thing that annoys them could actually be a good thing. Doesn't make it alright..but it sorta makes it understandable, though I do not disagree that one should strive to grow past that. Give it time though![Wink ;) ;)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
A.O you crack me up sometimes ![Big grin :D :D](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Milky: ever thought that different perspectives give that impression? Do a bit of research on this forum, and you'll find more than people venting in a thread things. Just becoz people need to vent about something that irks them about someone else, doesn't mean that per definition that someone else is in fact fake, or is deliberately being fake. It actually means they have a different way of being, one you're not even trying to understand. That makes you intolerant or closeminded, which imo is just as bad. I too have had issues with Fe-users *seeming* fake, but once you understand what their motivation is...(and I thank Domino for showing me
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As for the Fe-users: don't let this person bait you into making ad hominem attacks. I think milky might even enjoy getting you banned. For that matter, ganging up on someone, even when they deserve it is...well,ime, rarely productive. Usually those that vent like this about others are just doing that...venting. Others get stuck in that frustration and start taking it for a fact, as they don't understand how the thing that annoys them could actually be a good thing. Doesn't make it alright..but it sorta makes it understandable, though I do not disagree that one should strive to grow past that. Give it time though
They make the most entertaining basement captives by far.
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