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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    I've used up all my stubborn on survival.
    That's why I've got my own Fortress of Solitude. Gives me a place where I can rest and recuperate from the world, regroup my will, and get ready to come back at life with everything I've got.

    It was a conscious decision on my part back in my teenage years when I was on the brink of suicide. I said, "Fuck you! I'm not gonna let Life beat me". She keeps tryin' me, got my back up against the ropes a few times and put me down on mat once or twice, but I always come back swingin.

    Survive long enough and eventually you actually start Living again. Its never easy but as they say "Nothing worthwhile...."
    "People in glass houses shouldn't use Windex when living near bird sanctuaries."- myself

    "We are never alone my friend. We are constantly in the company of victories, losses, strengths and weaknesses. Make no mistake, life is war...and war is hell. Those who fight the hardest will suffer the most...but that's what you have to do: Fight. As long as you're feeling pain, then there's hope...because only the dead do not suffer." -RD Metcalf
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenix_400 View Post
    That's why I've got my own Fortress of Solitude. Gives me a place where I can rest and recuperate from the world, regroup my will, and get ready to come back at life with everything I've got.

    It was a conscious decision on my part back in my teenage years when I was on the brink of suicide. I said, "Fuck you! I'm not gonna let Life beat me". She keeps tryin' me, got my back up against the ropes a few times and put me down on mat once or twice, but I always come back swingin.

    Survive long enough and eventually you actually start Living again. Its never easy but as they say "Nothing worthwhile...."
    I made that decision when I was 12, burnt through my teenage years with a vengence and graduated highschool with honors. After graduating from college, however, I lost my will for vision. I'm still no where near desiring to kill myself, but I feel like, in a way, I've already died. It's a strange feeling too...
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenix_400 View Post
    Naw. All societies eventually fall. New ones rise. History repeats. Its all inevitable. Do what you can, while you can. Give it everything you've got and let the chips fall where they may. At least if it all goes bad, you can't say it was due to a lack of effort on your part.

    LOL! Or maybe I'm just too damn stubborn to bow down and accept it. Who knows?
    Weird that I was just watching the video for the song "Land of Confusion" by Genesis last night, and the chorus of the song goes

    "This is the world we live in
    And these are the hands we're given
    Use them and let's start trying
    To make it a place worth living in"

    Hilarious video too
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    Deal breakers:
    - intolerant of my interests (you don't have to like it, you don't have to participate in it)
    - insistence on me only being at home when I'm not working (kitty is not indoor cat, deal with it)
    - won't give me half an hour to check my e-mails (I can't read and listen at the same time, never mind adding talk to that list)
    - refusal to unconditionally backup her standards by more than bitching (if you're helping, or helping to give me the time - cool)
    - insistence on coming with me then bitching about being unable to keep up after I've lightened her load or the pace (I'll do many things to try to make you more comfortable, but if I can't enjoy my time out because you insisted on coming - not cool)
    - unwilling to put effort into the relationship other than sex (as much as I like sex, it's only a facet of a healthy relationship)
    - lack of any common ground (need glue please)
    - hard drugs (not looking to go to jail or deal with the drama)
    - smoking in the house (asthma and allergies)

    Single offenses on rare occasions are acceptable, persistent repeat offenses get the frozen boot.
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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    i haven't thought about it as much as i would of thought. too tired today to say although i'll have to get back to this.

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    for a one nighter? meet the physical requirements

    long term? goal oriented, kind hearted or have a showing of healthy attachments in their life signifying to me they are capable. intelligent, openminded and unconventional. physical takes back seat to these

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    Let's mix that.

    Must Have
    Kind/Honesty/Understanding/Intelligence/humility
    sense of humor
    connect emotionally
    loyalty
    Ability to connect
    Likes to cuddle
    Be open to my vision
    Has my physical preferences
    Open mind
    Love life
    Willingness to try new things
    Initiative
    Like to dig

    Extra Credit
    Similar hobbies, interests, etc
    Geek girl / Gamer girl
    interested in expanding mind

    Can Accept Depending on the Situation

    Smokes
    Divorced (Has to be a really good reason)

    Deal Breaker

    Missing something from my "Must Have" list
    Obese
    Really Stupid
    STDs
    Violent (Both to self and others)
    Issues not handled in a healthy manner
    Kids
    untrustworthy (cheating, lying, etc)
    domineering/controlling
    obsess on material as the ONLY thing in life.
    judgmental
    careless of other peoples feelings
    obese
    unhygienic
    and more...

    Or in other word,an well developed ENFP

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bassai View Post
    Let's mix that.

    Must Have
    Kind/Honesty/Understanding/Intelligence/humility
    sense of humor
    connect emotionally
    loyalty
    Ability to connect
    Likes to cuddle
    Be open to my vision
    Has my physical preferences
    Open mind
    Love life
    Willingness to try new things
    Initiative
    Like to dig

    Extra Credit
    Similar hobbies, interests, etc
    Geek girl / Gamer girl
    interested in expanding mind

    Can Accept Depending on the Situation

    Smokes
    Divorced (Has to be a really good reason)

    Deal Breaker

    Missing something from my "Must Have" list
    Obese
    Really Stupid
    STDs
    Violent (Both to self and others)
    Issues not handled in a healthy manner
    Kids
    untrustworthy (cheating, lying, etc)
    domineering/controlling
    obsess on material as the ONLY thing in life.
    judgmental
    careless of other peoples feelings
    obese
    unhygienic
    and more...

    Or in other word, a well developed ENFP
    Awwww. We ENFPs like you, too.

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    Lol! Yes, INFJs ftw!

    INFJs... we might go wandering in search of some perfect ideal relationship out there, but deep in our little hearts we know we want you. If you've ever been dumped by en ENFP, I think you can say with some certainty that either they made a big mistake, or that you're an immature INFJ!

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    "Uhh...Hmmm...Ok."
    • Kids
    • Criminal record
    • Mental Illness
    • Divorced


    "Sorry, I gotta go..."
    • Dishonest
    • Prude
    • Crazy/Violent (Murder, rape, stalker, abuse, etc.)
    • Obese
    • Rude/Controlling
    • STD
    • Hard Drugs
    • Unhygenic

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