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[NF] NFs: How do you like it?

In bed, I like it

  • tender

    Votes: 11 13.6%
  • rough

    Votes: 11 13.6%
  • either way, depending upon my mood.

    Votes: 59 72.8%

  • Total voters
    81

Brendan

Guerilla Urbanist
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*giggles*

Curious to see how this will pan out.

Left the vote private, because I know I'm bashful about these things.
 
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Phantonym

Guest
Eating cookies in bed. Let's see now. Being tender about it tends not to create too many crumbs. Roughing it = too many crumbs, that's not that pleasant. Still, I guess the best course of action to eat cookies in bed would be to do it either way, I'm just moody like that. :smile:
 

Talisyn

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Joined
May 29, 2010
Messages
84
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
9-1
??

*giggles*

Curious to see how this will pan out.

Left the vote private, because I know I'm bashful about these things.

So, Brendan, what's your conclusion? :blush:
 

SillySapienne

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Either way, and, let it be known, that it can be rough, very rough yet still quite tender at the same time....

:wub:
 

Rebe

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Rough love making for me.
 

stringstheory

THIS bitch
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always depends on my mood...which, of course, can change multiple times in one session :D personally i think having it both ways makes for a rather satisfying roller coaster of emotions.
 

Einnas

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Eating cookies in bed. Let's see now. Being tender about it tends not to create too many crumbs. Roughing it = too many crumbs, that's not that pleasant. Still, I guess the best course of action to eat cookies in bed would be to do it either way, I'm just moody like that. :smile:

This made my day! :D
 
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garbage

Guest
it ain't sex if you ain't bleeding out of your eyes



also: i kind of expect every NF poll to be swayed overwhelmingly toward "whatever I feel like"
 

SecondBest

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I'm a guy and I almost always prefer tender.

I noticed I only wanted it rougher when I felt my partner starting to distance herself from me. If the love was there, for me, the sex would be easy, tender, and effortless - no need for the extra rough stuff.
 

angell_m

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Jul 6, 2010
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Take control and lose control, please.

Potato sacks makes me flaccid :thumbdown:
 

Domino

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I think the trouble with answering is that "tender" implies saccharine with birds flying out and "rough" more than implies sadism and unloving behavior.
 

scantilyclad

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so/sp
rough...and then tender...and then rough again.
 

Hyacinth

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sx/sp
A little mix of both ^_^
 
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