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[ENFJ] So.... do all ENFJ's love talking about themself and their issues?

Afkan

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:laugh: i love it when people can own their shit.
:D Me too....especially when its me owning my shit... i love my shit, its the best shit in the world!!! :laugh:


"Get the hell away from me... I'm trying to be as annoying as possible so that you don't bother me again." :D
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Whatdya say, aphrodite, should we give the girl a gold star? :)

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Unkindloving

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I'm referring to super annoying topics, like how amazing and fantastical I am. What reaction do you think an ENFJ like us would be seeking who was bragging forever about themselves?

Anyone? Anyone??? :)

I did a variation of this to my ISTP friend for months. You could say i Ni-ed the shit out of him, because he was in denial about my awesomeness. :cheese:
Mm strategy.
 

SillySapienne

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It is my experience that *most* people love talking about themselves and their issues, this is really not type related as much as it is human nature, methinks.

However, in groups of people consisting of four or more, I've found that extroverts definitely tend to hog the microphone!

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toast

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I mean everyone talks about themselves to some extent, but with ENFJs it's a bit too much. They're fixated on themselves. First they talk about how amazingly fantastical they are, then they start going on about how lost and depressed they are. :doh:

With most other types it's a good convo about anything and everything. With ENFJs the convo is all about them. Anyone else notice this?

Can't sort my emotions out with out talking about them aloud to other people... and there are A LOT of those (emotions/thoughts) swimming around in my multi-tasking head all day. But don't worry, we feel bad about prattling on.
 

Domino

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Why is anyone in this thread apologizing for prattling? Or taking hostages? This isn't a type thing. It's a self-absorbed person thing. Good grief.
 

proteanmix

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Why is anyone in this thread apologizing for prattling? Or taking hostages? This isn't a type thing. It's a self-absorbed person thing. Good grief.

#1 reason why I haven't participated.
 

Domino

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#1 reason why I haven't participated.

You mean you DON'T want to talk about yourself until everyone induces vomiting?! And you call yourself an Fe primary... //heavy sarcasm finis

The last person to talk my ear off for days about nothing but himself was an ENTP. Irony tastes distinctly like crow.
 
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