[MBTI General] I wish I was something else.

[ilovelurking]

...well, that's a tough question to answer...

Which do you prefer to be? What will you sacrifice in order to be happy with your ISTP husband and most importantly yourself?

 

[Wonkavision]

Ahhh so confusing! Someone analyze me! lol.

Well, first of all, after reading your posts in this thread, I'm wondering why you are unsure of your MBTI type.

If you're xNFP, then I think its fairly obvious that you are INFP rather than ENFP.

What makes you think you might be ENFP?

And if you are, as I am inclined to believe, an INFP, you are probably a 4w3 or 4w5.

You may relate to 2 or 9 because of peacemaking and people-pleasing tendencies and so forth, but if you are INFP, I think that further investigation would reveal an even stronger identification with the 4---seeing yourself as a tragic romantic, someone who is special, different, maybe flawed in some fundamental way, etc.

None of this is meant to be conclusive, but I hope it points you in a helpful direction.