[ENFJ] Overpowering the ENFJ charm.

[Mad Hatter]

Are you serious?

No.

 

[Unkindloving]

Okay, I'm ready now.
Forewarning: seething bipolar person about to speak.

ENFJs drive me up the WALL because they're little bitchy drama queens. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I could just punch you in the heart ENFJs.
You guys try to SEEM all "strong" for the other person. Queefs!
You are MUCH too exceeding, and if people don't give you EXACTLY what you want, you freak out and go psychotic. Your standards are WAY too high, and you refuse to look at yourselves while your criticizing everyone else. Like your effing perfect.
You're such ASSHOLES to everyone else and you're freaking cowards because you're the only people that can't let themselves open up and be hurt like NORMAL people.
No no no. If you get hurt, it's not the same as anyone else, it's 134523564623544times WORSE because it was YOU. And you think you have everyone under your charm because you're good with words and you can make people believe you.
But I can see through all your bullshit.
And you're A S S H O L E S ! ! ! !


Ironically enough, I've never been in a relationship with and ENFJ.
Hm... WONDER WHY.

You sound like my over-dramatic ex that reminds me why i hesitate to ever date INFPs again
So we're drama queens, but we don't let ourselves get hurt, yet we do get overly hurt because we are somehow open to let things happen to US. Can i say ow? Because Ow.

You've either had too many run ins with very unhealthy ENFJs, or you simply don't understand our mechanisms. Here- take some of my secret stash of empathy. It tastes just like that bubblegum medicine they stop giving you at the doctor when you hit 5 years old, because they are inclined to let you suffer for the rest of your medical existence. Seriously. Tasty!

Thanks for pointing that out.

(Emphasis mine.)

I like you for a reason and this is a part of it.

*turns on boombox* All these bullets flying make me wanna groove.

Bitch, move over. I know your big ENFJ ass wants to hog the dance floor, but there needs to be room for two big, ENFJ asses!

 

[TopherRed]

*bumps ass with UKL*

 

[Unkindloving]

*bumps ass with UKL*

Whoo! Aw, the bump. What are we jamming to anyway? Not like we really need music, we're nuts enough as it is

 

[TopherRed]

V101.1 Sacramento, the R&B and OOOOoOOOOOOooOOOOld School Station!

 

[ceecee]

Even though I think this ENFJ shtick is cute now, I will come back on another day and fiercely argue that ENFJs do not have to be the kings of the world. Just wait...
iNFPs have the gift of Kick Ass Ranting
xx don't cross me byatch xx

Okay, I'm ready now.
Forewarning: seething bipolar person about to speak.

ENFJs drive me up the WALL because they're little bitchy drama queens. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I could just punch you in the heart ENFJs.
You guys try to SEEM all "strong" for the other person. Queefs!
You are MUCH too exceeding, and if people don't give you EXACTLY what you want, you freak out and go psychotic. Your standards are WAY too high, and you refuse to look at yourselves while your criticizing everyone else. Like your effing perfect.
You're such ASSHOLES to everyone else and you're freaking cowards because you're the only people that can't let themselves open up and be hurt like NORMAL people.
No no no. If you get hurt, it's not the same as anyone else, it's 134523564623544times WORSE because it was YOU. And you think you have everyone under your charm because you're good with words and you can make people believe you.
But I can see through all your bullshit.
And you're A S S H O L E S ! ! ! !


Ironically enough, I've never been in a relationship with and ENFJ.
Hm... WONDER WHY.

Maybe because you're a nutter and it's fairly easy to spot.

 

[Unkindloving]

V101.1 Sacramento, the R&B and OOOOoOOOOOOooOOOOld School Station!

Nice. You can hang .
Dude whenever i do get out there, there will be much karaoke and dance fun time. I'll hold you to it! ENFJ powers activate! I will fully (and shamefully) admit that i will be saying that phrase a lot when the time comes.

 

[TopherRed]

We should wear giant magicy rings of power!

 

[Koocoomoo]

I am a nutter.

Sorry if I offended anyone.

 

[Unkindloving]

We should wear giant magicy rings of power!

Crispy.. Yes. This will be made to happen. No lie.

I am a nutter.

Sorry if I offended anyone.

I accept nuttery buttery goodness. However, i do bite if it all seems too tasty not to .

 

[JoSunshine]

No.

Whew!

 

[BlueFlame]

Okay, I'm ready now.
Forewarning: seething bipolar person about to speak.

ENFJs drive me up the WALL because they're little bitchy drama queens. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I could just punch you in the heart ENFJs.
You guys try to SEEM all "strong" for the other person. Queefs!
You are MUCH too exceeding, and if people don't give you EXACTLY what you want, you freak out and go psychotic. Your standards are WAY too high, and you refuse to look at yourselves while your criticizing everyone else. Like your effing perfect.
You're such ASSHOLES to everyone else and you're freaking cowards because you're the only people that can't let themselves open up and be hurt like NORMAL people.
No no no. If you get hurt, it's not the same as anyone else, it's 134523564623544times WORSE because it was YOU. And you think you have everyone under your charm because you're good with words and you can make people believe you.
But I can see through all your bullshit.
And you're A S S H O L E S ! ! ! !


Ironically enough, I've never been in a relationship with and ENFJ.
Hm... WONDER WHY.

Well, if I'm a bitchy, drama queen, I'm obviously in good INFP company. :hi:

 

[TopherRed]

:rolli: Cha, right?

 

[runvardh]

The only ENFJ I dated was too broken to even sanely be representative of the rest. She hadn't seemed recovered from the last person who smashed her apart - I almost wonder if she even takes enough of a break to recover. It's kind of too bad, but life goes on.

 

[niberrizbe25]

Sure there is a wa y to overpower such an individual. simply do not react when they elicit an emotional responce to you. No matter how accurate you must react like their hypothesis about you is completely wrong. Then they will spiral into self doubt and be completely defenceless to your influence whahahaha. That is the thing about manipulative people they must always be able to manipulate to feeel confortable; you take that from them and they are lost...

 

[JoSunshine]

Sure there is a wa y to overpower such an individual. simply do not react when they elicit an emotional responce to you. No matter how accurate you must react like their hypothesis about you is completely wrong. Then they will spiral into self doubt and be completely defenceless to your influence whahahaha. That is the thing about manipulative people they must always be able to manipulate to feeel confortable; you take that from them and they are lost...

^That sounds pretty manipulative to me

Isn't it possible that someone can be charming AND sincere?

 

[niberrizbe25]

^That sounds pretty manipulative to me

Isn't it possible that someone can be charming AND sincere?

Sure! i never said anything about the manipulation being insinsire. ENFJ's I have met have all been great great and fun people; most are just being themselves when they manipulate your emotions. Not really mad about the playing of the emotions because when you look at it deep down most acts of communication are manipulative at the core... But if we are talking about destroying the seductive influence of the ENFJ and ruining their career ... the ante must be uped! This is all hypothetical ofcourse...

 

[TopherRed]

Um...whatever.

 

[JoSunshine]

Sure! i never said anything about the manipulation being insinsire. ENFJ's I have met have all been great great and fun people; most are just being themselves when they manipulate your emotions. Not really mad about the playing of the emotions because when you look at it deep down most acts of communication are manipulative at the core... But if we are talking about destroying the seductive influence of the ENFJ and ruining their career ... the ante must be uped! This is all hypothetical ofcourse...

No! No! No, Nib! That's not what I meant!!!

I don't think I "sincerly manipulate" people's emotions! I mean can't a person simply be responsive to someone's demeanor...especially if it is charming, cute, attractive, etc. And the responsive person is simply reacting becuase they are drawn to the other person? Maybe they do things for that person they wouldn't do for others, are willing to make sacrifices and have strong emotional reactions when the other person is upset, happy, sad. Isn't that what say, love or even "like" is?

 

[runvardh]

I find charming, cute, and attractive to be signs of future trouble. It feels disarming and thus makes me even more guarded until I find out what kind of trouble it is.